After we went to drop off the kids she sends him a text, "you treat me differently when she's not around. Good to know " I know she did that just so I would read it and start questioning my husband about it. He replied, "my wife is first." To which she said "funny I thought your kids were first." He just stopped texting her.
I want to tell her so many things like, "thought you were too fat to be a hooker but look at you wiggle wiggle."
And then "oops. Guess we should all keep our thoughts to ourselves. "
I've been trying to meditate and forgive and what not just so I don't get so angry with her but every time she sends a text, I feel like it's some type of manipulation. She's always saying stuff like, "I've always been there for you." She told my MIL that she regretted kicking out my husband and that she wanted him back, that he was responsible for all the bad stuff that happened to her and he needed to take care of it. She's been driving on a spare tire for over 2 years and is waiting on my husband to buy her new tires, WTF??
I really really want to be in lala land where I don't think about her and her stuff doesn't affect me, but every time we get the kids she has to say or do something and it does get to me. Anybody else feel like this? How do you cope? At this point I can't hide that I do wish she would get run over or finally get arrested. MIL has received some letter she says that are warrants for arrest and I just want to figure out how to help her get arrested or killed, but I'm kind of a karma believer so I don't wanna do anything bad.. so I just get more angry!! Go on, you can tell me how immature I am now