So, I asked the step daughters 28 and 30 to bring something to contribute to the Christmas dinner. One had a total freak out. She is stressed out and can't deal. There is so much more to write on this subject... But to keep the point brief. SD 28 and son-in-law 39 have WW3 argument on Christmas Day at our house. Sil 39 leaves for a while and SD has howling crying screaming fit. I was happy neighbors were away otherwise police would have surely been called. Dh did nothing to rectify her behavior. I told him go tell ner to calm down and he Said to me, this is how she gets it out. Really? it was a banche screaming in my house!

Needless to say SIL came back..and did not speak to SD the rest of the day. After another 6 hours of grueling torture.

SD and SIL move on dec. 31st 7 hours away (yeah). But at the end of the day when they were leaving...we were saying goodbye and other SD 30 said "oh this is the last time you'll see them moving so far away". Crazy mental SD said in the circle of family, "oh that is probably a good thing for (my name here)." No one said anything. It was like an elphant in the room. I said nothing, just stood there not knowing what to say. My DH sai nothing,.... No support of his wife. His ex was mentally ill, I think his daughter is too. I have no doubt...

Tonight. DH and I had big fight. I told him, you should have said something! You left me standing there didn't say a word. Your daughter was rude, I don't care if we don't get along. I have been gracious, providing and caring. Now he has left the house tonight after our fight. And I say good riddance.. He can't support his wife over his snotty as child he doesn't deserve me. I text him that if he allows his daughter to bad mouth me, he can forget about speaking me again. Oh he just walked in. And has all my fault for foght attitude. I say the big f word in my mind. More later... Love you sisters of being a acted step mom!