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Submitted by MiseryNMissouri on Mon, 06/01/2009 - 3:02pm

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BM's we all are grown and have kids, if we didtn then we wouldnt be on here...this is a message to all of you, lets stop the game playing and think about the kids...Lets declare today, National Stop the BS day, B ....All of us who are dealing with crazy BM take a stand today, tonight and love your DH's (we know that men will be men and screw up something, LOL) but just for today take your DH by the hand guide him to the bedroom and show him how much you dispise that BM of his thru love.....i know i am crazy but it works, dont let the BM come between you and your man...so what ever you have planned for the day, cancel it and love your DH...peace and love.....midwest style....

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Submitted by MiseryNMissouri on Mon, 06/01/2009 - 3:37pm

I know thats right, so when i get mad i just put on that bull riding outfit i got (mizzo style) and do what i label as BM Anger Management.....my DH loves it....

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Submitted by Stick on Mon, 06/01/2009 - 5:54pm

You are sooo funny!! If my DH were here right now and not gone on business, I'd have to take out some frustration on him!!! Hmmm.... maybe a little phone time??? !! }:) Yikes TMi!! Smile Ha

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Submitted by melis070179 on Mon, 06/01/2009 - 6:30pm

hmmm...I don't think that I would want my DH to relate his sex life to BM...ummmm...no. If she pisses me off, I'm gonna make sure she pisses him off too! LOL Its his fault I gotta deal with her, after all!

"You never realize how short a month is until you pay child support"

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Submitted by Sebbie on Tue, 06/02/2009 - 11:25am

I would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not.

When I am ticked at bm, I want dh feeling it too, however, when our bitch session about "IT" is over, I love a little play time with dh because I love basking in the knowledge that dh is all mine!!!

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Submitted by artsymom on Tue, 06/02/2009 - 1:53pm

I have to think he only did BM twice to get the kids....... and hope to GOD he was WASTED ....cause otherwise I could throw up

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Submitted by Stick on Tue, 06/02/2009 - 4:45pm

I don't think the intent is to do a gripe session about Bm and then be like, "Hey baby - let's take a tumble!" Everytime we talk about the ex, my DH tells me he experiences shrinkage! I think it's more like S.Graham said, "basking in the knowledge that he is MINE!". I seriously wonder about ex. DH is really the best man I have ever been with and when I think about how completely stupid she was to lose him, I just shake my head! I do think that the context of he's glad to be with me, not her, and I'm sooo freakin happy to have him with me and NOT her dumb ass, definitely can start some sparks!

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Submitted by MiseryNMissouri on Wed, 06/03/2009 - 8:42am

thanks for the feedback, and i believe stick is right on point....

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Submitted by StepMadre on Wed, 06/03/2009 - 4:47pm

I completely love this idea!! After just over a year of marriage, I have realized that nothing makes my pathetic BM happier than the idea of my H and I fighting, especially over something she's done. The best revenge is really to live well and be happy and we are! We are finally at the point where she is nothing to us and we are moving on (and it has taken a loooong time to get here), but other than days where she pulls some bitchy move, we usually just laugh at her sad little attempts to sabotage us and get on with our lives. As for our romantic lives, if either of us imagined her naked body or if I picture their past sex life it would put us both off sex for at least a week, so we focus on ourselves and the only way she has come into that area in our lives at all has been my husband raving about how beautiful I am and how he doesn't know how he was able to touch her at all (words that definitely bring a smile to my face). This is pretty mean, but he also told me that the mattress that they used to share had a big dip in the middle because she was so fat that it broke the mattress in the middle over time. My evil side laughed with glee at that!! (and us smoms have to let our evil sides out now and then!)

"A lot of people are afraid to tell the truth. That’s where toughness comes into play. Toughness isn’t being a bully, it’s having a backbone.” ~Robert Kiyosaki