BM screaming at DH OUT in the neighborhood! OMG! How crazy can some people get?
So dh dropped off ss5 as promised at the bm graze estate at 9PM on his way to work with yet another broken promise from bm...ONE document, 2 pages long!
Did the psycho have it ready like promised. Hell no she did not.
So she starts screaming like a nut in front of ss5 out in the neighborhood telling my dh what a total pos he is, screaming about things that happened between them, YEARS ago? wtf? Then she starts her psycho threats about more money yatta yatta yatta and what a total BITCH I am? wtf? I NEVER have done anything to her...So dh said to her that he would be back to pick-up ss5 at 6PM because she has yet not fullfilled her obligations and she turns on her "PAS" act full throttle screaming how he NEVER cared for his son blah blah blah ( this is so not true trust me) ALL it is is 2pages!!!! Can you believe that? HER financial affidavit!!! ( ummm, can you say C/S adjustment?) DH pays her 407.00 (estimate) on a 50/50 split. The first agreement she took him to the cleaners. DH is ONLY trying to file a time-share modification to make it official so he does NOT go to jail/ contempt!
DH NEEDS me to go with him this evening as a witness so she does not pull yet more stunts. I have a camera/ etc...and I hope she does not come after me.
WHY oh why are some of these ex-wives so insane? So much unfounded venom and bm is the one who went lesbo, took the house, filed for divorce and told my dh to get out!!!! Amazing.
What is wrong with her lately and what is she up to/ thinking?
9AM oops*** I'm losing track
9AM oops*** I'm losing track here...
I feel like going and
I feel like going and punching her in her lazy eye to make it straight!
What a crazy ass fucking nasty lazy goldigging homewrecking carpet munching never gonna get a man stupid bitch.
( Just Venting)
Married - you have my
Married - you have my sympathies and prayers girl. I hope you are ok.
*** A rainbow just threw up on me... and now I'm sh*tting glitter! ***
Girl, this woman could be
Girl, this woman could be psycho BM's TWIN! We've gone through the same sh*t for the last four years. BM does not stop at all, she screams, curses, etc etc. All in front of the kids of course. You definitely have my empathy. Don't let that woman get you riled up, and if she tries any of her crap again, just have DH mention to her that he will be recording every conversation between them. Make sure he records himself saying that to her with her reply to prove that she was notified.
Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz
Actually, DH doesn't have to
Actually, DH doesn't have to announce to ex that he's recording their conversation!! As long as HE is there and HE is the one recording it, it's perfectly legal!! In a nutshell the law (in all 50 states) says that as long as one party has given permission to record the conversation, it is legal.
Example: DH gets out of vehicle to have a conversation w/ Ex, and you slipped a device that's recording in his pocket w/o his knowledge, then get back into the car. THAT is illegal, because neither party was aware of the recording. But if *HE* turns on the recording feature, gets out of the car and walks up to her to start conversation, THAT is legal, because HE is one of the parties that gave consent.
good luck to him and to you. Personally I think he should have the paperwork served via sherrif's office, or via return receipt required certified mail to avoid Ms. Psycho!
~*~It's all fun and games until somebody loses an eye; then it's a game: Find the eye.~*~
That is on a state by state
That is on a state by state basis. It is NOT in all 50 states. If anyone is going to tape record conversations, be sure to find out what the law is in YOUR state. In my state, it is a third degree felony to record a person unless they either give permission or it is court ordered.
In our state, we can record
In our state, we can record a phone conversation with only one party privy to it being recorded; however, for in-person conversations, both parties have to be aware the conversation is being recorded. We made sure to verify this with local law enforcement and the courts in order to be in compliance. What irritates me is that psycho can be a complete nutjob and nothing happens to her, but if DH steps one TOE out of line, he is instantly the bad guy.
Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz
Still have poor ss5 today
Still have poor ss5 today because of bm's psychotic behaviors. I feel soooooo bad for everyone (except lazy bm) involved in all of this trauma- drama.
ALL three of us went to retrieve ss5 yesterday at bm's graze estate and she had put on yet another lie/ crazy event UNTIL she noticed all of us listening to her in the car in the driveway!
BM looks soooo frigid! BM KNEW we were coming / ordered to pick-up ss5 and she put on an act "acting" like she was oblivious with ss5 at the door crying!
BM TOLD DH to "do" whatever to "try" to get his son- ss5! ss5 was in PJ's and very scared/ afraid!
Okjay, WHY is bm doing this to everybody to only avois responsibility? ONE needed document with her financial disclosure?
All bm is screaming about is money from dh and he has/ is overpaying her and GAVE her a house?! wth
ss5 is becoming PASsed to death and we are all loving him but at our wit's end in some respects.
I am very very proud of my husband lately!
We will "see" if she
We will "see" if she actually has the document by 6PM tonight, like bm promised- AGAIN. grrrrrrr
BTW: We had 2 more witnesses
BTW: We had 2 more witnesses yesterday which we were told are better in court than anything.*
MarriedWithChild - I am
MarriedWithChild - I am happy to hear that you are all ok... saddened to hear about the drama in front of your poor SS5. I am sure that he is completely freaked out seeing his mom like that.
I know that he is young, but I personally believe you may want to get a doctor to talk to him. I think it also may help in court, if you have someone that is only for SS5's best interests - making sure he is okay with everything - that is coming from you. If you have that already and I missed it - my apologies.
Oh! And great news on the witnesses!
So sorry you have to go thru that while you are pregnant. Ugh!
*** A rainbow just threw up on me... and now I'm sh*tting glitter! ***
Thanks Stick! Therapy is in
Thanks Stick! Therapy is in order and we are very aware of it.
The bad news is bm will not allow it with ss5 (alone) and dh must go back to court, again...to make it so!
Amazing how one person thinks so little of the real harm and trauma they are causing EVERYONE.
Good news is my hubby is kicking his "nads" in overdrive.