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Clue me in please? (I was away moving and on mini vacation.)

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 8:29am

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So what went down while I was gone? I get back to work today and all the posts are confusing and I am completely lost here?

What are we allowed to say now?

How is everyone lately? * bites tounge *

MWC Wink

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 8:36am

I was "abducted" by aliens and they brought back my new all- improved, "clone." hahahaha

I looked once on FB for SVS~

I have a new topic inspired by SVS that is completely working out for me, personally but as the new 'terms' not sure what to post now?

" SAYING NO!!!" BY: MWC (and feeling zero guilt)

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Submitted by soverysad on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 8:38am

*like*

The word "no" is my new best friend!

"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"

There IS a difference between having a different opinion and being an asshole, find it.

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Submitted by soverysad on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 8:37am

I missed you girl!! Glad to see you're safe and sound. We were worried.

You missed all kinds of drama. In a nutshell, some people are peeved about cliques, someone was ousted for telling almost every member to Eff off, a few people left or threatened to leave because of all the attacking, we had a group hug, Collegemommy booted her man out (and rightfully so) and is a free woman, one member who was previously disliked has come around to the light side and is actually a good addition to the site, we've discussed the welcoming of new members, we discussed people feeling left out and not getting posts, friendships, ignoring people and / or posts we dislike or have a strong disagreement with, and we're all trying to be a little more sensitive / respectful on our approach to blogs that may come across as offensive simply because we don't have background / know context.

I think that covers it!!

"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"

There IS a difference between having a different opinion and being an asshole, find it.

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Submitted by MarriedwithChild on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 8:44am

Wow!

It's like I truly came back to another planet!

I'm 'lost' on the new censorship as most so said forums are what we call, "heresay." (imo) as we never can post viable proof?

Where are the new terms of conduct?

SVS~ HOW are things with you? Are you feeling alright?

Thank you for the synopsis. Wink

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Submitted by soverysad on Tue, 04/13/2010 - 8:59am

I didn't read the new terms. I am still posting the same way I've always posted. I think what is important is that we don't personally attack and use very derogatory language. You know, act like mature adults?

I am ok. I had surgery on Wednesday to remove some leftover placental tissue from my uterus (sorry for the tmi). I have to have it checked again next month. Depressed about the delays in being able to start to try again. Most days I try to focus on the drama out here to avoid thinking about how sucky my own life is. Things with dh are very good. I feel bad that I am so sad all the time. Dh deserves someone more excited about life. I find that I feel hopeless about being a mother and that leads me to just waiting for life to be over, but that is a whole other issue.

You're welcome on the synopsis. It was a wild week. How did the move go? Are things getting better since you've started saying no?

"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"

There IS a difference between having a different opinion and being an asshole, find it.