Last night SD7 announced to DH and me that she doesn't want to go back to BM for the rest of the week (2/2/5/5 schedule and BM's 5 begins tomorrow).  DH told her too bad she had to and asked why she didn't want to go.  SD said it's because BM has too many rules in her house.  So we asked her what rules her mother has that are so bad.  She proceeds to list things like they have to clean up after themselves, they're not allowed to eat in their bedrooms and they get yelled at for jumping on the couch.  There were a few more that I don't remember, but nothing unusual or different from what's expected at our house. DH and I are just looking at each other as if this kid is nuts, because these are the exact same rules we have at our house.  So I point out to SD that she has to clean up after herself here, she's not allowed to eat in her bedroom and she's not allowed to jump on the couch or beds at our house either.  She thinks about it and then says, OK, I'll go.  So DH and I are left shaking our heads wondering where the heck that came from.  SD is very smart and can be manipulative, so I'm wondering if she's saying things like that to try to get the rules relaxed in both houses by playing them against each other.  I didn't say anything to DH, but my antenna is up.  Am I overly suspicious?