This is not the first time that SD9 has been lying but this takes the cake. Let me back up for a minute...

So the SD9 & SS7 now live with their BM, much to my delight, I do not have to take care of them on my own or force myself to interact with them on a daily basis. It is quite lovely.

Unfortunately there are still problems and now DH has to deal with the Ex's numerous requests for money that she is NOT entitled to. She only saw the kids once for a week in 3 years and she wants to claim them on her taxes for 2008. Not only is it illegal it's ridiculous that she would even think for a second that she is entitled to it. What a gold digger... DH said no way and finally after she asked him about 5 times he told her off! It was awesome, it turned me on to see him stand up for himself like that. He usually gives in to shut her up but he stood his ground this time, yay! Oh, and we were able to buy the car after all, our loan was approved. Thank goodness or I probably would have left. If we couldn't have got a car because of his poor choices in the past it wouldn't been too much for me. With money from tax return he is going to pay off her car as much as he can so he won't owe her anything monthly except for child support.

So, the latest thing to happen is that DH got a voicemail from Ex yelling and screaming about how he didn't tell her how many times I have disciplined SS7 and that I'm a bitch and he's a bad parent, etc. Somebody is lying because I only disciplined SS7 one time the entire 3 years they lived with DH! And the situation was that he had woken up at 1am in the middle of the week, turned on all the lights in the house, went down to the kitchen and was eating cake! In the middle of the freaking night! And I am a heavy sleeper and he woke me up by turning all the lights on and opening and closing doors. Ridiculous. Unfortunately my husband was not home but even so, I would not have done anything any differently because that was just too much. SD9 has been caught in a major lie before so it's pretty safe to say that she is lying to her BM. Don't care, it's a clusterf#ck over there at that house anyway. The ex's brother called my DH a couple days ago and told him all about the situation over there. Their ex-con brother that just got out of prison and is now living there, with the kids! The lesbian gf is living there, with the kids! (I don't personally approve of that lifestyle but whatever...) 3 adults and 2 kids are living in a 2 bedroom house. Also, the ex has been calling the brother that contacted DH and asking him for money now too now that he has a stable job. What a mess!!! Anyway, DH said he would talk to SD9 and ask her about the lies but it's almost pointless because she has been caught in a major lie before and she tried to sell it by screaming and crying and acting ridiculous. Anyway, any comments are welcome! Don't hold back, I know this is nuts!! I couldn't have ever thought up any of this in 1 million years!