BM no longer a constant presence in our lives
BM hasn't called or emailed to harrass us since BD was born in September. The only contact she's had has been every other weekend to try to keep SS from coming on visitations claiming he's "sick" and shouldn't be around the baby, which BF has been consistent on not giving in to for the past couple of months. She only calls SS a couple of times a day now when he's here. It almost feels normal. It's been really nice! I wish it would stay this way.
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That's great!
I'll keep my fingers crossed and hope that it lasts!!
Dawn
I agree...that is wonderful!
I may be slow to remember what happened but... did you ever go to court with BM?
"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley
Which time?
We've been to court with her so many times now...orders of protection, restraining orders, child support lawsuits, custody hearings...
The most recent was in November, where the board of child support told her that the payment was going to go down because of the birth of BD. She refused to accept that, so we should be going back to court again soon to present the CS case in front of a judge.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
I remember. :)
I just meant the most recent time.
Last I recall, she was sending e-mails on "ss's behalf" when you filed for a custody modification. I was just wondering how that all went.
"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley
RE:
Oh, yeah. She hasn't even emailed "from SS" in quite a while. BF said she even stopped asking him to move back in when he goes to pick up SS (thank goodness).
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
Yeah for you!!!!
I hope it will stay that way!
Nymph -I've been wondering
Nymph -I've been wondering how things were going for you. I'm glad that you seem to have some peace in your life right now and that it lasts!!
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
so happy for u nymh!
maybe she finally woke up and realized that she had to let go! such a better outcome than the alternative--flipping out even more bc of baby! im glad things are going ur way and u can enjoy ur baby girl w/o constant stress from BM.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Not to get off topic here,
Not to get off topic here, but when I see your screen name I always think there is a P in front of the H...sorry, I must be a sicko! LOL
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
I wasn't so lucky...once I
I wasn't so lucky...once I got pregnant BM started with her antics...she all the sudden wanted full custody, started saying how DH was never going to take HER kid again (he never took him from her, the state did)...all kinds of crap. Once the baby arrived & she realized nothing changed in regards to her or SS, she settled back down. She still gets an attitude sometimes when she doesn't get everything she wants, buts thats to be expected I guess.
Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"