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Submitted by razzledazzle on Mon, 04/21/2008 - 11:32pm

How about my fiance and I have been together for two years and two months. I met his kids after we'd been dating for about three months. During all this time, our relationship has progressed wonderfully. Every other weekend, holidays and all summer, his kids are here...in OUR home...with US...I even watch them when he's at work sometimes. MY family buys them Christmas. MY dad takes them fishing...but I digress. Here's the real kicker. The BM has NEVER met me. When I show up with my fiance to do exchanges, she won't get out of the car. She won't even look me in the eyes! What kind of SICK, PSYCHO, loser of a parent would refuse to meet the STRANGER who spends sooooooo much time with her kids?????!!!! I could be freaking Charles Manson or The Boston Strangler for all she knows.

Just more proof that she doesn't give a d*@^ about those kids and is hanging on to custody b/c she thinks DH will go running back...

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Submitted by Catch22 on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 4:37am

Our Bm hasn't and doesn't want to meet me either, can't say I care to meet her crappy mother arse either though...LOL.

Just think its a small amount you are spared in life!! I love that I don't get yelled at, stared at or any of the other crap she pulls, but you make a good point, I would want to know who was looking after my kids, but then again I am a good mother, she obviously couldn't give a rats butt!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

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Submitted by bellacita on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 8:48am

y'all are good women, and good mothers...these psychotic BMs we deal w dont care about their kids...they dont care that we take care of them and love them despite evrything...what they care about is their own sick vindictive personal agendas...

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Submitted by bellacita on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 9:31am

im sure she thinks shes the best mom in the world, rite?! thats how ours is. she doesnt care that shes causing so much drama, in front of her kid. she doesnt care that her kid is gonna grow up w/o seeing her father, in fact, she wants that so she can tell her, see yr dad never wanted u, blah blah....and she can keep collecting her paycheck. these bitches should have been sterilized at birth...

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Submitted by stired_crazy on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 9:41am

I would want to know who was spending time with my kid to, But I think if she is not getting out of the car or able to look at you its because she still might care about him and maybe figures there in no reason to know you ,Because maybe she figures you wont be in the picture for to long or something.. like there is still a chance for her.

Thats how I would take that, she prolly is not looking at you as a long term thing with your B.F, If I was you I would introduce myself and say hello..it will show you have ALOT of class.
I would aproach her nicely with a smile on my face and tell her how great her children are Smile

And then tell her it was really nice to meet her Smile

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Submitted by sweetthing on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 10:10am

daily. ( Literaly every day after school.) I am spared Fridays & the weekend she has them, except during baseball season. Now I will get to see her on our weekends because SS10 has games every Sunday night.

I wish I could say I had never met her. Enjoy it!

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Submitted by fedup3 on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 1:01pm

You both hit the nail on the head with the BMs just wanting revenge on their ex husbands & caring about that more than their kids. I see BM on occasion but since day 1 my husband & I agreed that she & I would talk ONLY when ABSOLUTELY necessary. I have no desire to talk to or as much as catch a glimpse of her. Having it this way I'm sure has spared me many an accusation, so say the least.

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Submitted by bellacita on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 1:09pm

the few times ive had contact, its resulted in her calling me names. i cant even go to McDonalds where they excahnge bc i cant stand the site of her, neither can fiancee but he has to! mind u that doesnt stop her from keeping up teh BS about me...must suck to have yr ex have a pretty, normal girl now, and esp to have yr own kid like her!

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Submitted by Angel on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 2:21pm

really relate. Been married to her X for 4 years, dated him for 3 & I have NEVER met the biomom. I could be an alcoholic abuser & she wouldn't know the difference. Her SON comes to my home every other weekend. IT PROVES SHE JUST WANTS A BABYSITTER, not to have the man/child have a father. I'D EVEN HAVE TO KNOW THE BABYSITTER that took care of MY kids. Poor excuse of a mother.

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Submitted by Catch22 on Tue, 04/22/2008 - 9:51pm

Waiot til you read the latest doosey CAM (crappy arse mother..LOL Cru Wink ) pulled this week..am posting soon.
Egg donors..LOL..So damn true!!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*