So, I text her and tell her that I wanted her to know that I had nothing to do with her dad not going out to dinner with her (previous blog note). She text me back and told me she was pissed cause she did feel that way..but said her father corrected her. Then she proceeds to tell me she knows she can take him out with or without my permission anytime, and that the idea was for me to come, but that I don't go to any family functions, and that she loves me and is trying and accepts me as her stepmom and like having me in her life. (Makes me sick....all lies)
I asked her what family events did I not go to? (she ignored my questions a few times...but kept on her) and she said I didn't go to Easter, her family bday party, her grandpas bday party,,,then tells me that I probably won't go to Christmas with them..which means her father probably won't go either. Seriously? All these functions are guess where...at her drunk grandmas' house.(previous blog on that one) Why the hell would I want to go there? She proceeds to tell me that her gma has never made me feel unwelcome or uncomfortable....OMG right. then she goes on to say she's tired of being walked on. Does she really know what that means? To me being walked on means being used over and over. Is that right? I have never 'used' her to any extent. I told her that I wasnt included on her birthday dinner with her father, so just figured she wanted to be alone again with him. (she never responed to that one).
I also told her there is more to the family then her, her dad and me. There is her brother, my daughter, the grandson and brother's girlfriend.
Ok.....do you think that is permission for her to say whatever she wants?
She then unloads about my daughter! Said she hated her, she was a b****, selfish, ungrateful, dramatic little b****. Said she didn't give a rats ass about her (my daughter). You don't know how bad I wanted to say to her 'look who's calling the kettle black'. But I didn't.
Then I told her I didn't like her lies that she texted me, and she takes it the wrong way..and her response is..'i was honest I hate your daughter'. (NOW MIND YOU MY DAUGHTER LIVED HERe 2 MONTHS) she don't even know my daughter.
then she tells me that she can say whatever she wants to, and wants to put everything on the table so that things can get back to normal. I reply: Nothings ever been normal and glad you feel you can put it all out there. She replys: not since u moved down here, it hasn't been normal. Then fifteen minutes later she apologized for that comment. I tell her she needs mental health help. She tells me to F*** off and to stay out of her life and her mental health has been fine until I came into her life. Says she's done that to stay the hell out of her life. That I maybe able to push the rest of the family out of dads life, but she isn't going to be pushed out of his life. And if I have a problem with that take the broom thats shoved so far up your ass and ride it back.
I told her that my comment was out of actual concern. But she can go ahead and get defensive as usual. Told her not to bother apologizing cause at least now she's really saying how she feels. And asked her who I have pushed out of his life...as he is always free to see whomever he wants. I ended the conversation.

So, I think this pushes our 'relationship' to a differentl level now. I'm DONE. She is EVIL, VINDICTIVE...etc. Do I really have to keep my mouth shut still? I know it's got to be him to tell her to leave....but it's still going to be my fault. I have tried for two years to be a part of her life. I have kept my mouth shut for 10 months. She is going to do whatever she can to control her father, whether she is here or not. Do I just make her life HELL here...in hopes it forces her out? But I don't want to stoop to her level.