I met my husband 5 years ago. We were both truck drivers so dating was out of the question so instead we talked on the phone non stop for two week, then we started driving together (much cheaper). After two weeks in the truck together we had a load go thru Las Vegas so we stopped and got married. Total time we knew each other: 1 month, the number of times I had met his kids: 0

I thought everything would be fine! He said he got along with his ex and that she had moved on even before the devorce. (He came home from work to find out she had moved his stuff to the guest bedroom and had moved her lover in. But she said she did want a divorce!!!) What a skank! And boy did they NOT get along!

Two days after finding out we were married the biomom started causing problems. She desided she wanted my husband back. Immediatly she began to teach her daughters to hate both their father and I. She started lie around town about me making it hard to find a job. She called social services on me ALOT! but only one investigation ever came about and I was proven to be inocent.

For the five years the ex has made it almost impossible for my husband to see his girls. Everytime he even tried calling them she said they weren't home or didn't want to talk to him. She moved multiple times so we couldn't find the girls and only giving us a phone number. She even told the girls that they couldn't see their Dad because he was trying to kidnap them and they would never see her again.

She also had us in court literally everyother month trying to get more money or having my husband arrested if her child support check was 1 day late. Then we moved to Georgia! Thank God! The state of Georgia child support system won't put up with her crap! We haven't been back to court at all. Georgia collects the money and then sends it to North Carolina and then they send it to her.

Then on the 3rd of this month the ex calls out of the blue! Saying she can no longer handle the girls and wants my husband to take them. That she doesn't want them back and will pay child support (yeah right). But she told the girls it was only till the end of the school year. She even had a fit that my husband couldn't drive five hours to pick them up that night. He did talk her into keeping them till the 5th so he could get a day off (he's still a truck driver and had to get back in town)

I had to immediately quit my job. I had been driving tour buses but it ment alot of overnight trips. Since my DH makes more money I quit to stay home with my two SDs.

I had to take my last paycheck and buy them beds, sheets, and toiletries. Then they showed up with three trashbags of clothes between the two of them. Most of these clothes were either to small, roined with holes, or stained. I spent 4 days pretreating and bleaching their clothes!!! Then I had to go overdrawn at the bank to get them new shoes (their shoes had holes in them) and clothes fit to wear to school. Plus there were beanbag chair since all we had in the livingroom was a loveseat.

And you think these girls would be a little thankful but nope, not at all. The oldest (12) only listens when her dad's not around and the youngest (11)is nothing but trouble. She was her mother's favorite and although her mother litterally kicked her out of the house she still thinks her mother is God and treats me the same as when she lived with her mom. For that she's always on restriction. I tell her she has two choices, Do as I say and we can have fun together or keep doing like you are and have a terrible life. I also remind her that after 5years there is no way she's getting rid of me so she might as well get over it. That girl TRUELLY! hates me!! Don't get me wrong they both hate me but she's the one I don't trust at all!!