My bathtub is forever ruined for me

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I knew it was going on, I just wanted to be ignorant.
(SS had my bras and thongs under his bed for those of you who missed that post)
I turned on the bathwater and walked away. When I came back something was floating in the bathwater.
I instantly knew what it was, but I thought, no it is shampoo, it is conditioner. I'll prove it to myself. So I grabbed every shampoo and conditioner and body wash and started squirting them into the water. None was a match. I almost threw up. And I drained the bathwater and went into my bathroom to take a shower. I do believe I am never going to be able to take a bath in my own house ever again. I really wanted to remain ignorant.

This is beyond awful! How

This is beyond awful! How old is SS? Did your husband address the issue of the bras and thongs? Talk about feeling violated in your own home! This is totally unacceptable.

My husband "talked" to SS

My husband "talked" to SS about the bras and thongs. Nothing was really done. I watch my shit like a hawk. And DHL is pissed when I say, "no none of the kids can take a shower/ get a bandaid out of our bathroom" He thinks I am holding onto things too long and should get over it.

Ewwww- sorry- I'd be so

:jawdrop:

Ewwww- sorry- I'd be so grossed out.

It's like the time I found SS's used condom on the windows :sick: ill.

This. This is why we are

This. This is why we are adding an extra bathroom in our house right now just for the boys. It connects to their rooms. Mine are still young and we aren't there yet, but with 3 boys in the house, that day is coming eventually and it will NOT be in MY tub!!! Also, they will learn to do their own crusty (gag) laundry. Lol

He and the youngest girl has

He and the youngest girl has their own bathroom. It is the only bathroom with a bathtub... the other three have showers...

and dh wonders why i'm so

and dh wonders why i'm so adamant about the kids using their OWN FREAKING BATHROOM/TUB.

I would be forced to totally

I would be forced to totally say something to him. If he is nasty enough not to clean up after himself then I would have no issue coming right out and telling him where to deposit in the future.

HAHA! Yes!!!

He'd probably like it and

He'd probably like it and stash it under his bed.

Hahaha! I think I just

Hahaha! I think I just simultaneously threw up a little bit in my mouth while I was laughing...

AmIWicked husband will do

AmIWicked husband will do nothing, just like he did nothing when his son stole AmIWicked and SD underwear, other then washing it for them.

I would tell your ss in front of his dad that if he must masturbate in the bath to ensure he cleans it as no one wants to find it. And then tell your DH he is now responsible for cleaning the bathroom from now on as there is no way in hell does his daughter need to have to deal with it.

They already do clean their

They already do clean their own bathroom. They only thing I cleaned occasionally WAS THE TUB. 5hat was only because the kids would take baths and not "rinse the scum" out afterwards. I like to soak occasionally with a glass of wine so I would fill the tub with hot water and let it sit for a while, before I scrubbed it, then I would immediately take a bath before a skid got to spoil it. (Which is what I was doing on this day)

So did you already clean the

So did you already clean the tub and then he snuck in and masterbated while the water was filling up?

No I was filling it to clean

No I was filling it to clean it.

this is totally sick. and

this is totally sick. and something has to be done. dh needs to grow a set.

The situation calls for some

The situation calls for some embarrassment and humiliation.

Call him out on it directly. Tell him "We all know that you masturbate in the bathroom, but ejaculating into the bathtub is truly disgusting. If you like, we can have a family meeting to discuss masturbation and how to do it in a sanitary manner. In the meantime, here's some bleach. Now start cleaning".

And perhaps he wouldn't even

And perhaps he wouldn't even be embarrassed.

Went through the same thing

Went through the same thing with SS14 and the spa tub. I enjoyed it twice and never again.

DH did not do anything about it, and didn't care/probably forgot about all the porn on SS's tablet.

Can't get him to go l. Only

Can't get him to go l. Only one visit.
DHL said he can't make him (maybe doesn't want to force) but damn! It would help!

Well, that's vile. He must be

Well, that's vile. He must be the 30 second wonder if he worked that up while the tub was filling--unless you have a massive tub or horrible water pressure.

He was in there showering

He was in there showering before me.

He would be banished. Shower

He would be banished. Shower outside. Whatever necessary. I couldn't have reached in that water to pull the plug...

It was in the back of the

It was in the back of the tub, opposite end of the plug, or I probably would not have. I did gag audibly.
I knew he did it. It was more than common sense teenage boy stuff. Even before the bras and thongs thing.
A half hour after bedtime, he would come out of his room, go to the bathroom and run the sink for about 5 seconds. Then go back go bed. Not nearly long enough to wash hands or brush teeth... so at least he wasn't wiping it on clothes or sheets.
This time he must have just assumed the shower water took it down the drain...
*spine shiver*

I love your picture icon. I

I love your picture icon. I feel like that is how I looked... No! It can'take be!

oh that is just nasty gross.

oh that is just nasty gross. Yes I know both those words mean the same thing but this situation grants the use of them both.

I would totally call him on it too. And if DH had a problem with me calling the kid out I would say, well I told you once to handle his shit but nothing was done, so if you don't want me embarrassing the kid again then you make sure this crap doesn't happen again. Oh and I would demand that DH remodel my bathroom and put in a tub there.

"SS! I found a glob of your

"SS! I found a glob of your sperm in the bathtub. Maybe your father doesn't want to deal with it but here is how it ends today. You will not leave ANY traces of ejaculate anywhere where someone else will see it our come into contact with it. If you do not take heed of this warning I will take photos, tag your name and make your life unbearable all over social media. Your level of shame will nearly meet my level of disgust, Your call. Oh and you touch female underwear in this house again and I will out you. Oh yes I will. "

I would love to be so bold,

I would love to be so bold, but I would forever be labeled as the wicked step mother who was so harsh on the SS that I probably scarred him for life...
(His E.D. at 65 would end up getting blamed on me because I yelled at him for this.)
I'm already blamed for so much as it is...
I'm a Villian before I open my mouth sometimes.

I will tell DH. I have had time to get the initial hissy-fit-yuck-gag session out of my system to where I think I can talk about it now without feeling like there is slime goosebumps on my skin.

DHL will do the same thing he did with the bras and thongs thing and say he, DHL, was the one who "discovered" and "no one else knows" so SS needs to be "more respectful of other people" in the future and clean up after himself in bathtub as well as not steal other people's underwear

Had a roomate in college who

Had a roomate in college who had a boyfriend with bad aim in the bathroom. Just yuck

Had a roomate in college who

Had a roomate in college who had a boyfriend with bad aim in the bathroom. Just yuck

Ewwwwww ! Makes me thankful

Ewwwwww ! Makes me thankful to have SDs ....which is hard enough......but at least I don't need to deal with jizz .

Master bedroom is completely off limits in my house ....kid free zone. Don't touch my bed or even think of using my bathroom.

Fruity, I'd have to replace

Fruity, I'd have to replace that tub, too!!

"I would love to be so bold,

"I would love to be so bold, but I would forever be labeled as the wicked step mother who was so harsh on the SS that I probably scarred him for life...

(His E.D. at 65 would end up getting blamed on me because I yelled at him for this.)
I'm already blamed for so much as it is...
I'm a Villian before I open my mouth sometimes. "

And WTF is wrong with being labeled the wicked step mother. And I personally hope the little POS suffers from ED and premature ejaculation for the rest of his MFing life.

Own your villainship.

LMAO. Sorry, but that's so

LMAO. Sorry, but that's so funny, disgusting but funny. He needs to be told to clean up after himself, clearly he's old enough. I'm just afraid if you tell him, or reprimand him, you'll start finding more around the house and on your belongings. I could see a bratty teenage boy creating more messes in spite. You know if he'll be spiteful, because you know him. If you think your saying something would be affective, do it. I just wouldn't be able to stand wondering where the next load was going to be found, lol.