It was a combination of a stressful marriage,toxic surroundings,and the straw that broke the camel's back was teen SS. He was always out of hand,but once he got older and got a mouth on him and angst he just became too explosive.

It came to a head last weekend,out of nowhere he just exploded and started threatening me and that's one thing I told the wife I wouldn't tolerate. I would not continue to keep living in a toxic environment concerned for my safety. I could have called him on it but again it would just create tension...