ugh. My Dad used to do this to my brother and me. Tell us he's picking us up on Saturday morning, didn't show up until 4pm or later.
My brother didn't seem to care as much - he's younger, but me? I would sit in the front window with my suitcase at my feet. Waiting. watching. waiting. watching. waiting....
My Mom told me years later that it broke her heart, watching me pine for a guy that couldn't even bother to be on time for his once in a blue moon (his choice) visitation weekend.
people suck. give those kids a hug from me. I know their pain.
BM never showed. Kids dad sent an email asking if she was coming,...
She responded "per our last....blah blah blah" She is saying they had an agreement that she was not going to be there,.... uh NO.
She also said she tried to call last night and we were not home. She claims she "tried to confirm" but we were not home so she couldn't talk to the kids and let them know what their father did not,...
Some BS from the BM,...
She is completely overlooking the fact that there is email, text, and she could have left a voicemail message,....
It's funny if you read my "BM corned me tonight" post she USED ALL THREE to tell her side of the story to my boyfriend! oh BM how you bend things to fit to your liking,...
We ended up taking the kids to a home basketball game their oldest sister was playing at, so the two younger got to run around with some of their friends at the game.
BM just didn't want to drive down again, since she was just here Tuesday morning to drop the kids off for school.... She is FINALLY feeling the weight of the idiotic decision she made to move an HOUR away from her kids,... too bad it is GAS MONEY that is making her realize the distance...
Sad that these children are saddled with BM as the shallow and polluted end of their gene pool.
My own SS had his heart shreaded repeatedly by his SpermIdiot. He went to SpremLand 3x per year for 16 years and rarely saw the SpermIdiot. Until he was old enough to mostly look after himself he was pawned off on one or the other of his great grandparents. Once he was old enough to mostly care for himself he spent his time with Sperm Grandma and Sperm Grandpa. Rarely did he see his Sperm Donor.
Fortunately he had his mom and I and my family. He has always been my parents grandson and my brother and SIL's nephew.
Your Skids are lucky to have you and their father.
I still think both parents are playing games in order to look like the better parent. They both continue to do little things things to piss the other person off.
So she didn't leave a voice mail or text. Didn't dad see the miss calls? Why didn't he have one of the kids call her back?
She supposedly called our landline. No caller id no record of missed calls. She knows this. BM has also written angry emails saying she just tried calling and we did not answer, when we were home and she clearly was not calling... We called the phone company though the next day just to make sure, line was working.
Kiso dad had asked on multiple occasions for a call schedule of days she wants to call, her response is "the kids should be home by 7:30pm every night. I will call then. If you won't be home at 7:30pm any night of the week then you need to let me know!"
My SD's BM does that crap to her all the time- not show up when she is supposed to, and after DH has already told SD that she is going to her mom's. It's awful.
ugh. My Dad used to do this
ugh. My Dad used to do this to my brother and me. Tell us he's picking us up on Saturday morning, didn't show up until 4pm or later.
My brother didn't seem to care as much - he's younger, but me? I would sit in the front window with my suitcase at my feet. Waiting. watching. waiting. watching. waiting....
My Mom told me years later that it broke her heart, watching me pine for a guy that couldn't even bother to be on time for his once in a blue moon (his choice) visitation weekend.
people suck. give those kids a hug from me. I know their pain.
BM never showed. Kids dad
BM never showed. Kids dad sent an email asking if she was coming,...
She responded "per our last....blah blah blah" She is saying they had an agreement that she was not going to be there,.... uh NO.
She also said she tried to call last night and we were not home. She claims she "tried to confirm" but we were not home so she couldn't talk to the kids and let them know what their father did not,...
Some BS from the BM,...
She is completely overlooking the fact that there is email, text, and she could have left a voicemail message,....
It's funny if you read my "BM corned me tonight" post she USED ALL THREE to tell her side of the story to my boyfriend! oh BM how you bend things to fit to your liking,...
We ended up taking the kids to a home basketball game their oldest sister was playing at, so the two younger got to run around with some of their friends at the game.
BM just didn't want to drive down again, since she was just here Tuesday morning to drop the kids off for school.... She is FINALLY feeling the weight of the idiotic decision she made to move an HOUR away from her kids,... too bad it is GAS MONEY that is making her realize the distance...
Oh forgot to add the best
Oh forgot to add the best part. BM said in the email that the kids dad REQUESTED that BM not take the kids tonight!
Lol,...
BM is really pulling crap from nowhere...
Parent Wizard, STAT. I'd be
Parent Wizard, STAT. I'd be done communicating with that sack of cray cray.
Sad that these children are
Sad that these children are saddled with BM as the shallow and polluted end of their gene pool.
My own SS had his heart shreaded repeatedly by his SpermIdiot. He went to SpremLand 3x per year for 16 years and rarely saw the SpermIdiot. Until he was old enough to mostly look after himself he was pawned off on one or the other of his great grandparents. Once he was old enough to mostly care for himself he spent his time with Sperm Grandma and Sperm Grandpa. Rarely did he see his Sperm Donor.
Fortunately he had his mom and I and my family. He has always been my parents grandson and my brother and SIL's nephew.
Your Skids are lucky to have you and their father.
I still think both parents
I still think both parents are playing games in order to look like the better parent. They both continue to do little things things to piss the other person off.
So she didn't leave a voice mail or text. Didn't dad see the miss calls? Why didn't he have one of the kids call her back?
She supposedly called our
She supposedly called our landline. No caller id no record of missed calls. She knows this. BM has also written angry emails saying she just tried calling and we did not answer, when we were home and she clearly was not calling... We called the phone company though the next day just to make sure, line was working.
Kiso dad had asked on
Kiso dad had asked on multiple occasions for a call schedule of days she wants to call, her response is "the kids should be home by 7:30pm every night. I will call then. If you won't be home at 7:30pm any night of the week then you need to let me know!"
I feel so bad for those
I feel so bad for those kids.
My mom used to send me to my grandmother's house for visitation and sometimes my dad would show sometimes he wouldn't.
I really hope y'all can get stuff in writing in how she is acting...my heart just simply breaks for these kids.
Got scheduled mediation in
Got scheduled mediation in less than two weeks, but BM had already said on multiple occasions "see you in court" so,... Wer will see
My SD's BM does that crap to
My SD's BM does that crap to her all the time- not show up when she is supposed to, and after DH has already told SD that she is going to her mom's. It's awful.