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C'mon! Does there really have to be a "Don't be a douche Part 3??"

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Submitted by Sparklelady on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 9:30pm

My son just said, "So SS16 has moved out?"
Huh?
BS15's friend - cousin of SS16's girlfriend, told him that SS16 broke up with his girlfriend AND that he has moved out of our home.

Sigh. This BM is something special. Wonder how all that went down? My hubby has no idea, he's on his way back from fishing, and they didn't bother telling him about this.

I'm highly suspicious. Why, if he really did break up with her, would he move out of our place? Unless he didn't, and by staying at his mom's he can keep secretly seeing her. Who knows. Hope my hubby's not too sad. I'll have a damned hard time pretending that I'm sad. This mess is so tiresome.

Oh! Edited to add: just discovered BM had him change his passwords. We had been monitoring his facebook and messages. Including her messages having him go behind his dad's back. I think I see where this is going. Such a shame, but I'm not surprised. Monitoring electronics is a valuable tool and she obviously didn't want that to continue. So sad.

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Submitted by Sparklelady on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 9:38pm

Apparently he and his mother made this decision today. They just didn't bother to tell us.

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Submitted by WTF...REALLY on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 10:29pm

She took away passwords????

Just let him stay with BM. She is going to sabotage ever chance she gets, so what's the point. Sigh....

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Submitted by Sparklelady on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 10:33pm

Yep. I'm shocked by how sad this makes me. There's nothing that can be done to help him now.

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Submitted by WTF...REALLY on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 10:47pm

Lol.

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 10:57pm

So the BM is pretending to be upset about the sex to your DHs face but really she's telling the boy it's really okay and he can get away with it at her house...wow that's some great parenting

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Submitted by kathc on Mon, 06/01/2015 - 10:30am

nah, the same BM who screeches if her CS doesn't show up early will tell her baby boy that those nasty BMs of his don't deserve his hard earned money

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Sun, 05/31/2015 - 11:25pm

Maybe I'm just being petty in general tonight but if I were your DH, I would call BM out on it in front of SS. Ask her why she thought they should break up if she was just going to encourage them to still see each other.

And then I think your BM is quite a slippery one, she's using the most efficient thing to drive a wedge between him and his dad: hormones. Most BMs on here just bribe Kids with money, clothes, vehicles...but this lady is offering up the love shack...so sad, so disgusting

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Submitted by misSTEP on Mon, 06/01/2015 - 8:29am

Exactly. Our SD went from having a future that was WAY brighter than any BM ever had...to getting knocked up at barely 16. BM filled her head with how disappointed her dad was in her for getting pregnant so young. Then put the cherry on the top by getting preggo herself so they could raise their babies together. :sick:

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Submitted by Sparklelady on Mon, 06/01/2015 - 10:58am

Tog, it's amazing that I was thinking this very thing this morning when I woke up - it isn't anything I can comprehend, dragging your kid down instead of raising them up. I want my son to be even better than me, and I'm actively giving him the tools to do so.

I just shared this with one of my employees and she said exactly what all of you have said above. I'm so glad to know that I'm not crazy in thinking this mess is ridiculous.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Mon, 06/01/2015 - 8:15am

We watch it again and again on here. BM tells DH one thing and does another. Siding with the kid to have the fun house with no rules...Watched it here and sad as I am for the person my SD could have been, grateful as hell she is not a factor in my life much anymore.