Don't be a douche Part 2
So. SS16 (SHOCK!) has been lying to his dad. He's been going to his girlfriend's (14) house and having her over to his mom's house with no parents home so they can have sex. Regularly. For months.
He "promised" his dad in February that he would never be alone at a house with her. (I know, who believes that promise, right? But my DH did, and he wouldn't hear any contradiction from me so it is what it is.)
Friday morning - after a month of back and forth with my DH over what I knew, but he refused to believe, has been going on with SS16 and his GF14 - I completely lost my temper and placed positive evidence this was going on in front of my DH. DH was finally humbled by the obvious truth I had been speaking. (Just a touch of backstory - when I originally told my husband what was happening back in February, he really struggled with believing me. He wanted to believe his son would never be "that" kid. You know, the horny kind. Sheesh. Anyway, he was perfectly content with simply accepting his son's word that he would never ever be alone with his girlfriend. And so my hubby decided that the girl's parents and SS's mom never needed to be told. I'll pause now if you need to laugh or smack your head. I already did. I'm disengaged. Not my monkey.)
So he comes home Friday afternoon and tells me:
1. Talked to BM, she was shocked (SHOCKED!) her little pooky was having sex.
2. She doesn't even want him dating her.
3. He must now decide to either tell her parents he's banging their daughter or break up with her.
Which was immediately followed by:
DH: SS16 was supposed to go to the fair with GF14 tonight.
Uber useless BM: well you know I'm soft, I'd let them go!
*Crickets*
DH: BM YOU created this monster! You just said you want them to break up, but you'd let them go out tonight anyway because they had plans????
There's so much more, but I. Can't. Even.
He's screwed - actually both DH and SS16 are screwed. Without an intelligent parent in on this, it's going nowhere.
If anything newsworthy transpires I'll let you know.
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Lmao!!! "SS16 IS the
Lmao!!!
"SS16 IS the father!"
I might start selling, I'M A
I might start selling, I'M A GRANDPA, shirts on this site.
And, I'M A GRANDMA, shirts as well, and you all can send them to the BMs!
My serenity cost me A LOT.
My serenity cost me A LOT.
It requires a level of disengagement that for me equals caring so little about the skid it's kinda sad. My love bank for that kid is in overdraft.
Human me feels horrible for him. Stepmom me just cannot afford to give a crap anymore.
I'm amazed at how many many
I'm amazed at how many many BioDads we bitch and complain about on here have clearly not learned their lesson when dealing with a crazy BM. You would think that after having kids with a woman they no longer wish to be dealing with, they would do everything in the world possible to prevent their children from having children so young and undoubtably with someone they probably won't want to be with for the rest of their lives. Instead of burying their heads in the sand when they find out their children are sexually active they NEED to be all over teen pregnancy prevention.
But atlas no, let's let our kids f around and take the chance that if they knock up their partner (or get knocked up themselves) they won't have the same split family future that they themselves lived through. Talk about generations repeating themselves...
I also used my DH's
I also used my DH's experience with BM as a teaching moment for using BC for my son. I told him that at one time DH and BM thought they were all in love and going to be together forever. I also told him that even if he is told that she is on BC, that he is responsible for his OWN actions and needs to make sure to take precautions.
My DS is going to be 25 in a month and we haven't even had a scare - at least not that he's told me about.
High five ladies. Thanks for
High five ladies. Thanks for the supportive comments. They're appreciated!