So quick recap: SS18 is in college across the country- he has a gf in our state who is a Jr in HS, and they are obsessed with each other. They have had sex, her parents are religious and don't know. This wknd SD15 (temporarily retiring her Demon nickname as she has been consistently normal and decent for a few months now) told us that SS's gf's parents love SS because he told them they are waiting until marriage to have sex. So, he straight up lied to their faces when they talked to him about sex, because they were worried that SS and their daughter were having sex in their house. Instead of just the normal lie (no we're not!), he went and said they are waiting til marriage. 

This is actually disturbing to me, because I already know SS is a huge liar- he lies all the time and I can't stand it. It makes me actively dislike him- meanwhile he has everyone else that doesn't know he is a liar charmed. SS is very charismatic. But this just feels...gross. DH did not look impressed either when SD told us, but I highly doubt he even said anything to SS, which just further frustrates me. Honest opinions- is this in the realm of what normal almost-19yr olds would lie about? Straight to their gf's parents faces? SD also said SS and his gf have sex at Crazy's and Crazy has talked to him 3x (she doesn't know they are doing it, because she's an idiot) about not having sex there and he doesn't care or listen. And of course she won't make an "open door" policy, because...she's an idiot. (SS's gf isn't on BC- that's the real issue, plus she's underage). 
 

Then, DH fronted SS the $ for this foreign car SS just HAD to have when his was totaled, using $ from our Home equity loan. I grudgingly agreed because he said it would be paid back as soon as the loan came through that he was co-signing for SS, (which usually takes a few days) but I let him know I was not happy about it. Fast forward a MONTH, and the loan is still not complete. The title took forever and SS was too dumb to know to mail the title to the DMV priority mail. I'm pissed at this point. SS is in college- he didn't need this car immediately. But DH can't say no to him.
Then, there has been all of this BS about SS's ins. It's $222 this month alone. DH told him he has to pay it. I got the bill to my email (although it's coming out of DH's acct) so I simply forwarded it to DH and SS as an FYI with no message added. SS starts texting DH whining about how Trunorth sent him this bill and said to pay it (nope! Lie. DH was copied though, so he saw) and it's "more than he expected", and it's due in a few days. DH told SS he was supposed to call the ins co. about the discount, which I had text SS WEEKS ago, but he never did. SS said "this is the last thing on my plate". Oh is it SS? You just had to get your way and get a fancy foreign car and the ins is more, you never called about getting the discount set up, and now that it's time to pay and it's more and you have to call it's "the last thing on your plate"? He is so entitled and just expects DH to do it all for him, but DH literally couldn't make this call if he wanted (SS has to be near the car to set it up). 
Even from across the country, this man-child is on my last nerve.

As I was asking the bank about SS's loan (because really it's our $ now), I inquired about a CC for SS to build his credit- I am done with DH co-signing for him. It affects me too! Next time DH better not cosign. The bank said SS qualified for a $2K student CC. Initially we thought it wasn't a good idea- he would charge it up. DH had the idea to only have SS's ins billed to it and then SS pay it back out of his checking. Perfect. Today, I find out that DH had to COSIGN for this f'ng Credit card!!! I almost lost it. I only asked the bank about it so that DH wouldn't have to cosign for things! I told DH I was upset about it because I am on the hook for these loans if something happens to him, and I would have said no had I known he had to cosign. There are other ways to build credit. I am beyond livid with this co-signing, ins, CC, loan situation. I sent DH a message about it today and when he came home he was "frustrated" and needed space, so he went upstairs for the night. Fine with me, I'm frustrated too. 

To top it off SS is definitely moving back for summer and he's applying to schools back here next year. It's terrifying honestly. Some of them are still out of state, but a drive away. I know DH is going to have to force him to get a FT job this summer because he's lazy and will drag his feet trying to stall, and even though he has champagne tastes and a fancy car with bills and $ he needs to save, he wants to do the bare minimum and thinks he should be able to "enjoy his summer" and sleep all day and spend every second he can with his gf. (Who has no problem working). If he stays with us all summer I may scream.