BM Monopolized Fathers Day
Now in the past I would have probably would not have cared of SD was coming on her weekend with DH . But since all the drama we went through and her not coming for months and months at a time , DH is finally pushing for stability ( he should have been pushing for his weekend all along ) he has a serious talk with SD14 and told her if it's his weekend she needs to be with him period . SD14 expressed that she has been wanting to come and see her siblings . Her last visit went so well and I thought we were moving forward to becoming more close . I actually enjoyed her company . SD mentioned she was going out of the country with BM but at the very end of June ( funny BM can afford out of the court y vacation but not a $180 urgent care bill) we asked SD14 if she would want to stay a whole week starting this weekend which is Father's Day weekend and also happens to be DH weekend , the following weekend I'd DD4 b day and I asked if she would want to stay for that as well ( weekend to weekend) SD always misses her siblings birthday. SD 14 said she would love to stay. Will insert BM to screw things up. DH texted BM asking if SD 14 had the chance to talk to her about coming to stay with us a week or tooo before they go out of the country . BM exact reply " we leave this Saturday... LOL" of course they are and of course on DH weekend! Also wtf is funny about that ? This is just like BM , she complains that DH does ask for SD14 more and when he does she shuts him down, " oh she has soccer , or oh she has a event " it's total BS . This is why we can never have a stable visitation schedule with SD
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You all could have a stable
You all could have a stable visitation schedule if your DH insisted that the court order/visitation agreement was followed (and then backed it up with action), but, yea, my DH was played with this way, too. Lots of passive aggressive games. He didn't want things to get nasty (court), which ultimately occurred, anyway (the nasty part). And the kids lose out. She is teaching your SD that your DH (and your family) is not worthy of respect.
100 percent correct, I think
100 percent correct, I think we are gonna have to finally take the court route. I know that she has asked DH to sign a permission form to be able to take SD out of the country. That is gonna have to stop. Also she needs to start letting DH know about these vacations when they fall on his weekend. She didn't even say anything at all
BM can’t change visitation unless DH
Agreed to it. You letting BMVdrive the ship, she is doing what she wants, not the CO. Unless you stop this you will be tge loser
Yup this will be the hill for
Yup this will be the hill for DH to die upon because she got plane tickets and stuff already but he needs to let her know he will be there Friday to pick her up. It's not his fault she made plans in his weekend . He may have to involve police ? Not sure how it works , she lives in a different city 3 hours away
My toxic breeder used to pull
My toxic breeder used to pull these type of stunts.
Reserve plane tickets on random weekends that suited him not following the court ordered dates that were already plotted.
I called my lawyer to make sure I wasn't in contempt then refused to bring our kid to the airport.
They will keep playing games and testing the limits of boundaries but when their wallet is hit hard .... oh they learn to follow the rules really quick
I truly hope that DH grows a
I truly hope that DH grows a pair and says no to the trip on his time. No, means no. He needs to send BM a copy of the CO highlighting the visitation schedule.