To my surprise it was a nice Christmas, other then the fact that my mom went out of the country and I didn't really see my sisters . But as far as SD 14 goes it was decent . BM actually spent Christmas with SD this year and didn't do her usually dumping SD off for 2 weeks. It's probably because both DH and I called her out on it so much earlier this year, maybe it clicked that SD would actually like to spend x mas with her mom. So we got SD Christmas Eve around 6 and went to SIL house where everyone would be . Usually we stay until about 12:30 am ( they celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve ) so of course everyone was fawning over SD14 who has not bothered to visit us or them for over 3 months l. It was a good time though, we were all having fun. I asked DH if SD was staying the night with us and he said she prob would or stay the night with SIL ... well little did he know that SD was already texting BM that she wanted to go back with her to open gifts with BM sister . So around 11pm BM came to SIL house to get her ( yea the same BM who can't see at night ) MIL and SIL were all sad SD had to go and asked why ( I wish they knew that SD was already done collecting gifts with them and wanted out) . We enjoyed ourselves and left around midnight . I don't think SD will be over very much anymore ... I think it's prettt lame that SD came ,

collected and left but I would not expect anything less from SD