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What is your worst fear when it comes to SK's? Mine is that she will NEVER leave....

2ndclasscitizen's picture

Submitted by 2ndclasscitizen on Thu, 10/25/2012 - 5:25pm

I know a lot of us look forward to the day when the stepkids will finally venture out on their own---and out of our house. Although I do feel guilty about this, I find myself dreaming of the day when SD goes away to college, or hoping that maybe BM will move far far away and take little miss drama with her. But, there is this nagging fear that she will never want to leave "Daddys" side, esp because she has this constant fear that he will love our daughter more than her if she lets him out of her sight. There also seems to be a trend here----little SK's=little problems; big SK's=big problems. I feel like even when she does finally grow up, the little brat will constantly have her hand out for daddy's wallet.

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RedWingsFan's picture

Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 10/25/2012 - 5:29pm

There was just a post on this topic. My biggest fear is that BM will die or get locked up and SD14 will be forced to live with us. And another fear is that DH will slide back into his old ways and allow SD to manipulate him for the rest of our lives... :sick:

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Submitted by Newstep on Thu, 10/25/2012 - 5:33pm

I KNOW she will never want to leave. My fear is that SO will be a puss and not make her. She has it good and she doesn't want to go to college. My rules will be if she is in school nearby she can live with us only if she goes to school full time. If not she can hit the bricks.

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Submitted by StepX2 on Thu, 10/25/2012 - 5:35pm

My biggest fear? That the 2nd SS doesn't totally lose it and go on a killing rampage! NO JOKE!

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Thu, 10/25/2012 - 5:43pm

My biggest fear is that he will take the easy way out in life and turn out like his mom.

2ndclasscitizen's picture

Submitted by 2ndclasscitizen on Sat, 11/03/2012 - 2:04pm

I have that fear as well.......she was terribly jealous when I was pregnant and really doesn't show much love towards her baby sister. I never leave the two of them alone together, not even for a minute.

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Submitted by StarStuff on Thu, 10/25/2012 - 9:36pm

My biggest fear is that SD will get pregnant as a teenager, just like BM. I hope that she's learned from seeing what her parents have gone through how tough it is to have a child so young. I also refuse to raise any grandchildren. They can visit, yes. Sure, we'll watch them for the weekend. But raise them? Hell. No.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Fri, 10/26/2012 - 10:38am

My biggest fear is that SD's multiple personilty disorder will never be diagnosed or treated. I have said this about her Mother for years that her personalities are split and there is more then one, I think the same thing is wrong with SD...and by the way...Im not kidding