BM logic can somebody help me with this..........
BM:
If you want to see the boys you HAVE to take SD as well. There will be no more "just" taking your boys. I will NOT split up MY children again.
Our logic on that:
We NEVER denied SD17. She was given a choice by BM and DH that if she could NOT be respectful in the home I reside in than she could not come. REPEATEDLY SD17 told DH and BM that she would under no circumstances work on things. Would not budge on anything regarding staying with us. It was going to be her way or NO way. So my DH told her well than fine you are making your choice. AND we didn't ask for much. ONLY that she is respectful in the house. Meaning NOT glaring at me. Not giving me shitty looks not back talking me etc. Each time DH went to see her he asked her the same questions. And each time it was NO.
BM also stated in her long winded email:
AS for holidays we will now do every other holiday. No more what ever works for either of us. It will simply be every other holiday. BUT I will NOT make SD17 go to your home for ANY holidays. No child should be made to go anywhere they don't feel comfortable or welcome......
Our logic on that:
WTF........ she is CRAZY!!!!!! A 5 page email full of her bragging about her great life. Full of her downgrading DH and his life. Full of praising her self for all her accomplishments.... and full of her stating every sentence regarding kids with "MY KIDS" and of course contradicting herself in about every single paragraph as you can see.
What the frick does this crazy person think? Somebody give me some logic into her brain PLEASE.....
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She is crazy. So she is
She is crazy. So she is saying that if you take the boys you have to take SD. SD doesn't want to come. Then she says I will not make SD come to your house for holidays, no child should feel uncomfortable. Makes no sense at all. She is an idiot. I would ignore her.
If we could help you none of
If we could help you none of us would be here, DO NOT under any circumstance try tounderstand crazy. You will only make yourself crazy. Sorry no real advise for you.
Just a big 'ol bag of crazy!
Just a big 'ol bag of crazy!
Geez....how can so many of
Geez....how can so many of our BMs be exactly the same person??? How is that possible?
Same b.s. going on with us. And the same crazy bitch thinking she's in charge....well, two of them: SD15 & BM.
Just tired..... Our SD is 17.
Just tired.....
Our SD is 17. Her and BM have become one person. IT is an all out war on DH all stemming from $$$$$. He isn't giving enough therefore she decided to make some new rules. Her email was full of new rules. I am in shock that she believes she is in charge of things. All of last year BM and SD17 fought. She even kicked her out three seperate times and called us of course to make it better. Hell she even kicked her out and took a family trip leaving her locked out of the house for the weekend. BUT we are the bad ones??????? I told my DH they may be on the same bandwagon right now because its the WE HATE SM... but give it time.. SD17 and BM will be at each other in no time. I can't wait for the call and for my DH to very sweetly give her the same advice she gave us this summer.. which is:
You are the parent. Act like it. This is all your fault she is JUST a teenager. You are picking your significant other over your daughter. What kind of parent are you? I don't want to hear your excuses. Grow up. You are the adult. Figure your own shit out. You are a POS parent. Just make her do the dishes or something.......... :jawdrop:
Yep every time there was drama between DH and SD this is what the crazy bitch would say to him. I can't wait for her call. I will chuckle and I will smirk when our phone rings. And mark my words I give it less than a month.
There sure is a CO. She just
There sure is a CO. She just refuses to abide by it therefore thinking she can call all the shots. Because she has an advantage she is 6 hours away from us which makes it hard for us to show up on her doorstep financially. In order to follow the CO we need her to comply with it. WE have been trying to. She is refusing everything. So we had our attorney draw up papers AGAIN this week. We just sent some last week regarding other issues. We are going to be up to our ass in debt...... because of her freaken bullshit.
SD17 is barely making it
SD17 is barely making it through HS. Has NEVER worked a day in her life. Refuses to get her license.
BM blames DH. Yet BM is (according to her SUPER PARENT) if she was such a super parent maybe she would pay attention to ALL the skids grades instead on focusing so much on what she is accomplishing with her college degree.. and HER great accomplishments in life. Sometimes you have to put yourself aside and help your children with their homework. Some kids need a push. You can't just scream at them 24-7 to do it. Sometimes they NEED HELP!!!!! My DH tries to help over the phone but that is so limited for him. It's insane. So when SD17 falls flat on her face this year and BM kicks her out into the real world after she graduates it will be interesting.
SS15 just called us. She was
SS15 just called us. She was on the other line. Phone call went like this
SDS15: So hey dad do we get to come for our visit this weekend?
DH: Well I'm not sure SS15
BM in the background YOU TELL HIM he will need to drive all the way here to get you and have you back early am on Monday
SS15: Repeats what bitchface says
DH: Well son I'm not sure how that is going to work I'll have to get back to you on that
SS15: Oh okay well let me know dad
BM: talking covering the phone....
SS15: Dad mom is saying we can see you if you drive here and stay here for the weekend.....
DH: I will have to get back to you.
OMG so not only is she expecting us to drive down there she is now expecting us to MOTEL it for 3 days...... What planet is she FROM!!!!!!