Today the bm took my ss to a new theme park for his special day. First off let's start my saying his bf said that he wanted to be the one to take him for his special day, so it's odd that she was the one that ended up taking him. Once my ss got home and was getting ready for bed, he was letting me know that his bm made it very clear that i was to wash and return the new clothes that he came home in the next day with him when he returned to her house. The fact that she said that didn't bother me but the way that he told me she insisted that it was done did. Every week that the kids return home to their bm house i always make sure that i return all of that woman's stuff. I do not want anything of her's at my house, except for the kids of course...lol. I always send new things with the kids over to her house and seem to not see it till it becomes to small and is worn out. As i was talking to my ss i told him that if his bm has anything to say to me then she needs to do so and not send messages through him. It's not fair to him and he's just a kid. He tells me that she does that because she doesn't want to talk to me. He begins to tell me that it has something to do with me being AA, but then he rebutles. I didn't press as i felt it was making him uncomfortable. Why does someone who say's they love their kids so much put them through bs like that. Her daughter had a special night a couple of days back and she didn't go because she saw me there. When i questioned her about it, she tried to lie and say that she didn't go, she didn't know i had already seen her and her vehicle parked in the front of the school. I just wish she could get a taste of her own medicine so she could see that it's not right to treat people that way!