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So Sick And Tired

mommashafer's picture

:? I'm a mother of a 4 year old and a 5 month old and I have an 11 year old stepson, my stepson does not live with us but with his mother and she's the type that if something you say doesn't sit right with her she'll keep him from us. My husband works and when get my stepson on the weekends and i'm the one home with the kids all the time, they love playing in the yard and with cars. My 11 year old stepson is autistic so I know I have to be more patient with him but I know all his signs for when he wants something or doesn't feel good, so about a month ago his mother wouldn't answer when we called her for not showing up on a sunday to pick him up and after over 24 hours she contacted me not his father and said she knows what she was doing that she saw our number when we called and didn't care that she did it for a reason to show him what being a parent is for one thing my husband is a wonderful father he's always there for his kids no matter what and she's the one that if she wants to go out and get drunk she pushes her kids away and she has 4 kids from 4 Different Fathers, now its been a month and she hasn't contacted us or answered our calls about getting him and I finally got ahold of her today and she told me that if I contacted her one more time she would charge me with harassment just for wanted to get my stepson so his brothers and father can see him I'm Just So Sick And Tired Of Her Drama!!! Sad

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Ljcapp1's picture

Shafer, does your husband have a court order with this woman? If so HE needs to file a contempt motion because she's not doing what the court order says.

Also, I agree, you shouldn't be contacting her for anything. That's for your husband to do. I understand your frustration, but for your own good and your sanity stay out of affairs that concern her.

She is one of those types that uses the kid as leverage. She is a dirtbag and she's really only punishing the kid.

mommashafer's picture

Thanks and no he doesn't have a court order with her he's tried and they tried telling him that he'd have to pay out the ass to get any kind of custody agreement they went through DR and she gets child support but still wont let him see his son