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Talk about GUILTING... lmao @ THE TWIST..

distorted reality's picture

And here I thought that only BM knew how to twist shit up to resemble NOTHING close to the truth. Talk about GUILT!

For those who don't know, I gave my opinion of a 'daddy-date' with ADULT D to my SO last Friday morning, and was promptly rewarded with the silent treatment. Not a new tactic on his part, just unexpected since there were no harsh words or raised voices.
Fast forward... SO finally calls me this past Tuesday morning. Naturally I did not answer, and he did not leave a VM. Repeat Wednesday morning. Again, I did not answer and he left no VM. Nothing yesterday at all (his day off.) Well, he just called me and I did not answer but, this time he left a VM. Ready???

" Um, I guess if you want to call me, you can. If you want to, I'll leave that up to you."

WTF????? MMMMK, no apology for acting like a spoiled little shit (much like your offspring and exW) and of course let's twist it up to make it look like I am the one who CUT YOU OFF! OMG-OMG! Is he frigging for real with this crap???? (rhetorical) Me thinks he spent too much time with his nose up his children's a$$es the last few days so guess what??? I don't feel like talking, go call your darling little disturbed D. Seems to me that was YOUR choice SO, not mine!

My apologies.... I just had to get that out. Dirol

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distorted reality's picture

Definitely passive-aggressive behavior on his part. Smile

At first, I was giving him a taste of his own medicine. You know, a consequence to his actions?
Now, I'm not answering b/c I feel unsure if I even want to continue down this road with him. I am so angry, disgusted, disappointed, confused, and lost. I don't have those warm and fuzzy feelings, at least not today. I just feel burned out. Sad

distorted reality's picture

You're right. I will text and tell him that I need time to process everything before we actually attempt to talk again. Thanks. Blunt is a good thing. Wink