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SD May Be Entering The Picture Again...

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 6:17pm

...unfortunately.

DH has been having things 'weigh hard' on him he says over the past few days. It's been 4 weeks since he's heard from the little trite.

He's tried to reason things out..SD20 is like her mother..but she is only like her mother due to her mother MAKING her that way. SD is a good person after all..deep down..she is just around her mother too much.

He asked for my advice..I gave it to him.

If he chooses to have his daughter once again be present in his life to treat him like shit..so be it. I choose not to. If he wants a relationship with her, don't include me in it.

She has stolen several things from us..and then blasted me with all sorts of hatred, doing everything she could to put a huge wedge in between he and I.

And he misses this??

Just last week, my SIL called me to tell me that SD called SIL's son..told him how horrible her new husband is and basically tried to get my nephew to argue with SD's husband. Told my nephew all sorts of bullshit about her husband...and all the while she was with AN EX BOYFRIEND.

And my DH misses this?

She's told me she hated me..and I ruined her father. I was the most horrible wife...and my DH feels it's okay to let his grown adult daughter treat me like shit..and then I suddenly put it aside and welcome her with open arms.

I'm finding out that SD's inlaws are scared to death over what their son has gotten into by marrying SD. They see the stress he's under and how odd my SD is...I truly hope one day that SD's husband grabs that baby and runs..I really do.

All I can say is that the past 4 weeks have been total HEAVEN!! I pray to God DH knows what he's doing because he will not be getting my support in anything that has to do with his daughter. Nothing.

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 6:22pm

Then maybe you and I should get together for a few stiff drinks because I can guarantee that it's gonna get worse before it gets better.

SD here has been playing the family sympathies..oh woest me. Her life is so bad..her daddy called her out on her stealing and she just can't seem to get over it!! For once in his life, he stood up to her and she has been saying he's dead to her.

And he wants to think about making amends...oh my god.

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Submitted by aggravated1 on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 6:26pm

Drinks sound good, I am in Florida, we can meet halfway!
SD here is doing the same thing, but hey, at least your DH confronted her about stealing.
My DH still has not discussed this with his daughter, who likes to steal from my DD14. It totally pisses me off, he is so scred of what she will say or do if he ever says anything about her behavior.

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 6:30pm

Ladies don't leave me out. I live in Florida too! But to be honest I am having a glasss of Sangria now..Getting read to take a long hot shower. Waiting for BF to get home from his Wednesday evening with the Kids.

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Wed, 02/16/2011 - 6:33pm

Well, she's stolen money from my purse..expensive earrings, clothes..and a couple expensive pieces of collectibles that my DH had for years and years. He just tore right into her..shocked me.

Now that time has went by he's wondering if it's worth the rift it's caused. I told him he had to remember she felt a sense of entitlement that is absolutely horrible..she's FAMILY. For that reason alone..she should have NEVER stolen from either of us.

Plus, the disrespect towards me was horrendous...I swear I would have shot this grown woman at birth.