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DH - Please Get Thy Head Out of Thy Butt...and Quick

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Thu, 06/09/2011 - 5:25pm

I had my neighbor come to me this afternoon and inform me that 3 of my SS18's friends were in our backyard today smoking a joint. These kids are 15..my SS is 18. He was in our basement - which has a sliding door that goes out to the backyard - playing video games with another loser friend. My neighbor saw what they were doing and saw all 3 toke on this joint.

He came and told me about it..I went to DH immediately and he went to his son. My DH and I both were gone during this time. SS claims he saw nothing.

SS EXTREMELY Childish

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 5:30pm

Quick synopsis...

SS is soon to be 19..has another year of high school left and will graduate..IF he gradates..when he's almost 20. Mommy felt he had to be left behind. He spells horribly..has no attention span and defies all authority at school and is in ISS quite a bit. He's missed enough school that they have threatened to dismiss him if he misses anymore. He's an adult and they see him as that..no longer a minor.

Didn't Go To Family Cookout Today

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Sat, 05/21/2011 - 2:29pm

Last week was my DH's birthday..I took him out to dinner and a movie and spent some quality time with him. It was a really nice weekend for us.

DH informs me yesterday that his daughter - who I utterly detest - was having a 'birthday' cookout for him today. It included every last member of his family including grandchildren. DH knows how I feel about his daughter. I'd rather pull my own teeth out of my head than be any where near her. I've never been to her and her husband's apartment nor do I care to.

Opinions....Am I Too Hard?

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Wed, 05/11/2011 - 1:20pm

Since SD20 threw her fit after we caught her stealing in January and she filled my phone with her hate texts and bullshit, I blocked her, BM, BM's BF, and SD's husband from my phone, my husband's and my daughters. This is my plan and I pay the bill for all 3 phones. I want no more texts or calls from any of them and I will not remeove the block. They cannot call or text. DH has never asked me to remove his block for he contacts the bitch on his work phone.

DH Adjusting to My Behavior Towards SD

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Sun, 05/08/2011 - 5:23pm

Since I've disengaged from his daughter DH is slowly seeing I mean business.

I do not speak of her nor do I answer him when he speaks of her. Any words he wastes on or about her go unanswered by me. I say not one word nor give any indication I've heard him.

One thing I have noticed him doing..lol...he's began to say such things as "Now..I know my daughter's a little shit..and I know I can't change her..but I love her..." and his voice trails off.

My answer to that?

NOTHING.

BM Spreading Lies on Facebook

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Sun, 05/08/2011 - 4:53pm

Got a tip from a family member that DH's ex was on Facebook saying things about him.

She made a comment on how she just got out of jail after several days and paid a huge fine. She's claiming that she took the blame for my DH a while back on an accident and he never paid the fines.

Okay..if you go online and look at public records it showed she was arrested back in '08 for driving with a suspended license and never paid her fines. They had 2 different bench warrants out for her over the past 3 years. They must have finally caught up with her.

DH and SD on Facebook...Puke City

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 5:51pm

I have SD blocked and deleted on Facebook and I haven't been able to look at her account since early January. Today one of my friends who is also friends with my DH was on her Facebook..she got on his page to ask him about getting together with her and her husband when he travels for work next month and then from across the room told me she always laughed at the posts from his daughter. I never see them because I have her blocked and anything she writes cannot be seen by me.

In fact, DH has never been friends with SD on Facebook he says. Hmmm...

SD20 Feels BM Is Welcome at Our Home...NOT

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Sun, 04/24/2011 - 8:45am

SS18..who is only a junior and has another year of high school left due to Mommy keeping him 2 years behind because she thought he needed it..and yet is the worst mother in the world...MAY go to prom this Saturday. Not for sure yet.

SD has let her father know that Mommy would like to 'be there' for her son's 'take off'. Take off to what?

Not gonna happen.

SD and I are not talking in the slightest so I surely don't want her sorry ass here. And her mother feels she can threaten me at any given time when her kids are made to act like the adults there supposed to be.

Need ALL Advice You Can Give On Handling Anger

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Submitted by NewBeginning on Sun, 04/17/2011 - 2:21pm

OK...my anger towards my SD20 is spiraling out of control.

If anyone has ever read me here before, you'll remember she has stolen from our home and when confronted she came at me like a cat in a cage, screaming how I've ruined her dad's life and I am his worst mistake. I'm the reason she lost her daddy and she hates my guts, she said.

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