I have been a member here for what...two hours? for the past few days i have felt SO lost...like-can I really do this? FH and 3 FSkids-ages 17 and up, psycho BM who doesnt buy her kids christmas/bday presents, cries poverty when she makes $30K+ a year at a state job...robbed my FHs business out of tons of money when she left...never got any repercussions and my FH is paying her what, 50K credit card debt as divorce settlement? Then she texts him comstantly saying "Ill always love you, youre my soulmate, ill always be settling..." he shows me ALL the texts and never responds PERIOD. He does not speak with her. Its like HELLO lady you ruined his life. Does she really want him back? I dont think so. Im pretty sure shes just insane. I feel like its this sort of black cloud over our lives though...its tough to deal with sometimes...Its good to know there are so many women out there dealing with the same problems and emotions-some problems which are even worse then mine...and I never thought that possible. Good to be here!