I have been a member here for what...two hours? for the past few days i have felt SO lost...like-can I really do this? FH and 3 FSkids-ages 17 and up, psycho BM who doesnt buy her kids christmas/bday presents, cries poverty when she makes $30K+ a year at a state job...robbed my FHs business out of tons of money when she left...never got any repercussions and my FH is paying her what, 50K credit card debt as divorce settlement? Then she texts him comstantly saying "Ill always love you, youre my soulmate, ill always be settling..." he shows me ALL the texts and never responds PERIOD.