Back in May BM randomly called my H one night to talk about possiblilities for SS4 school come fall. She specifically said "I'm enrolling him in school this fall." She knew only that she wanted to enroll him in a charter school. Thats about it from the conversation as far as i know.

Now back in 09, BM tried to enroll SS into a preschool around her that, for lack of better fitting words, was ghetto. The place we found had no security what-so-ever, people just walked in and out all the time. Grown men hitting on 8th grade girls. Preschoolers being watched basically by highschoolers. So of course my H knowing the reputation of the place said hell no. That was the last time she mentioned school.

Now that its mid-August, Ive been curious as she hasnt mentioned anything about which school he'll be at or any interesting schools she was considering for that matter considering fall is right around the corner. so yesterday when she dropped off SS4, I asked her what the situation for the schools were. She said she didnt have any ideas yet. my response, o ok. well do you mind if i look? i was going to but wasnt sure if you had started already and i wouldnt want to hand you a list when youre already got one in mind.'She said 'o i havent started yet so go ahead. i was waiting on to pick with me since he had a problem last time with one i choose.' I just nod (thinking why the F would he meet with you even to talk about schools?) and she continues with 'yea i was thinking a charter school or one someplace inbetween our places so if you keep SS into monday it wont be an issue getting him to school. We also chatted about the daycare place our BD1 is at, since they just expanded and are offering a preschool program as well now. Which she didnt seem too excited considering shed 'have to get up real early to make that'

So im flabergasted by how incredibly fucking lazy she is! She hasnt even done one search for schools-not one!! And then when she realizes Im basically going to do all the work-she gives me a fucking list of requirements. Lazy cunt!
I wouldnt even do it except I dont want my SS4 to be an idiot.

I swear if hes not in a program come fall after all the calls ive made and work ive done- I'll push my H to get full custody.