I feel bad and I dont...but I cannot stand my step kids. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now. However, we have history that stems back 13 years (before children). He has FIVE kids by 2 women. I have one child from a previous relationship. His children are b/11, b/9, b/9, g/8, and g/5. My daughter is 9. One of his 9 year old sons, I have never met. He doesnt come on weekends or visitisit at all. Truthfully I'm glad, I have no real desire to meet him. As for the other four, they have the same mother.