DH mentioned that he would love to adopt daughter. She will be 17 years old this March. Bd father has not really been in her life. That talk or text every 3 months or so. She visits with her grandparent one a years maybe. So she is not every close to them. Bd was 8 when I met DH. He has been great with her. Lately BM has been telling skids that their father is spending more time with my daughter. So I have been seeing a lot of jealously from SD10. HELLO we are leaving in the same house! Hubby says he will wait till she is 18 so we don’t have to ask her father to give up his rights.

Okay this is what’s on my mind. This is our weekend with skids. Hubby is usually off on weekend but he works this Sunday. Now I used to watch them with out a problem when he had to work even- when my SD10 would go back home telling BM that I was mean and always yelling at them. Of course hubby was not there but every time that BM would call to Bitch him out he would always say “she is not like that....” Sd10 is just tells you what you want to hear! Sd8 would always tell BM that it was not true. That I was super nice and fun.

My SD is 10 years old. I met my Hubby when she was 2 yrs old. As a little girl growing up she stared to call me mommy and this made BM very upset. I think it was becuse my daughter calls hubby dad and she would hear this often. Well one day when she was 6 she came over to visit and said "I cant call you mommy anymore" I asked her why? She replied by say because my mom said you are not my mommy and that the only way I would be her mom was the day that she would die!