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Dysfunctional Family Christmas part deux

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Submitted by Wishes on Tue, 12/28/2010 - 12:20pm

What did S.O. get for Christmas from SD you ask?
Answer: nada jack diddly squat (literally) Keep in mind I said not one thing to him other than "So what did you get"? (Fully expecting it would at least be some little thing or a card from the g-kids. They live out of state and he went up to see them Christmas day).
S.O.'s defensive mode went up: "Nothing....I told them not to get me anything".

Then there were more lies and excuses and blah, blah, blah. :sick:

Don't you just love it....

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Submitted by Wishes on Mon, 12/20/2010 - 11:14am

Grown nearly 26 y.o. SD "can't" work because she's so busy raising her 3 kids under 6 years of age. Busy, busy, busy...so busy that she apparently spends a good majority of the day on the PC posting on FB, every little moment of her life.

I swear, I've never, ever run into such an entitled spoiled person who does NOT come from money (not by a long shot). Just recently she called daddy to the rescue again, asking for money (which I just found out was for food...supposedly). (See my last blog for details on that whole thing.)

He's sending her money...AGAIN...and he is broke now until pay day

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Submitted by Wishes on Wed, 12/15/2010 - 8:06am

Found that my S.O. is once again sending SD25, MARRIED WITH 3 CHILDREN, money. All this after his b.s. speech as to how he'll never send her money again and she'll never ask for it now that she's married. Yeah, sure, tell me another story. I am going to :sick:

I wonder how much the emotional blackmail cost him this time. :jawdrop: :? :O Sad

Adult stephdaughter's entitlement issues and selfish disregard

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Submitted by Wishes on Mon, 12/06/2010 - 12:12pm

I'm done. I can't take it anymore. I don't care if I ever have contact with SD ever again.
Please see my posts on the forum under adult stepchildren, same title as this blog. Page 2 is the latest entry in the 'saga' and the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back. I just don't want do play this game any longer. :sick: If DH wants to continue his guilt driven, co-dependent relationship with his grown daughter, he's on his own. I wash my hands of the whole d*mn thing.

Adult SD issues prompt therapy

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Submitted by Wishes on Wed, 12/02/2009 - 12:51pm

As many of you know I've posted about my adult step daughter issues recently (in forums under adult stepchild issues; "entitled SD" and "How do I detach".

So, I've decided to go to a therapist to get all this off my chest but I haven't told H about it yet. I want to but here's one example why I haven't (his defensiveness). This is from this morning:

Just got off the phone with DH and I feel like crying. I told him that we needed to talk about 'us' and his tone immediately changed to one with anger in his voice. "Talk about what!?" he said.