I've heard some crazy stories about DH's ex from him and his family and friends. But we've been together for a couple of years now and while I've heard some of her crazy talk on the phone she's usually on her best behavior when I'm around. So, I took most of what they had said with a grain of salt. Well, Friday I got to experience BM's craziness first hand.

I have been married for 21 months to my husband. We worked together years ago, stayed friends over the years and when we were finally both single at the same time we started dating and got married very quickly. I had some reservations about the timing but dismissed them since I had officially known him since 1998.

DH and I got into a heated argument Friday night b/c he's taking SS11 to watch his 'girlfriend' do some karate thing in a couple of weeks. I don't really care but DH is always making snide comments about how my BS14 is too young to have a 'girlfriend' until he's old enough to drive there isn't much point. I obviously think it's kind of a double standard that he's endorsing SS11 having one. He claims it's different b/c they don't do stuff together outside of school.

I seriously wish DH and I could take all 4 kids and just disappear. We have too many irons in the fire at the moment and the approaching holidays are already starting to stress me out.

We have 3 exes to deal with between us and we have 4 open issues in court with 2 of them.

1 - DH is working on getting the mediated visitation agreement added into their court order - Back to the mediator December 6th for that issue.

2 - DH is working on getting a CS reduction due to his unemployment - Back to court on December 2nd for that issue.