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Friday!!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:26pm

The skids will be here in a few hours and I am begining to feel ill (well I already have the flu) but I just don't have the strength for the conflict that will take place this weekend, is it just me or am I the only one tired of the fighting, lieing, disrespect and being treated like a piece of Sh*#!!!! I know it is bad to feel like this, but I just hate these weekends that no matter how nice you are or what you do for them nothing is good enough!!!

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Submitted by I_GOT_THIS on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:28pm

I second that feeling. This is our weekend too. Wish i had a fast forward button.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:38pm

I can feel my nerves starting to tingle on those Fridays. I also notice a big diff in BF's behavior also...like he is disconnecting. I know he loves his kids and wants to see them, but their behavior is too much for even him to take (especially when you don't know how to parent).

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:44pm

I know!! He can't figure out why he feels ill these weekends and is always out of energy!! Just wait, when the younger boy moves with his mom shortly, he will understand some peace!! just like he did when the older boy moved almost a year ago!! He just is afraid of losing his babies!!! but they are not babies anymore!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:41pm

I am not alone!!!!! I have 4 bio kids also but I feel like hiding in my room with my kids the whole weekend ( I don't) The skids Dad is very good and does not over indulge be he is also tired of the conflict that they create when they are here, I sometimes feel like I always have to be the one to put my foot down and he is so tired sometimes he gives in because he can't (not won't) fight anymore, I can hardly wait until SS 11 turns 12 in 17 days and can go live with his mother like his older brother did, and we will have a little more peace in this house!!! Home should not be a place you dred going!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:47pm

that must be hell!!! giving in is the same as giving up!! You can't let them have everything that they want it sets them up for an attitude of entitlement that will be of no help to them as adults!!!! Sounds like Biomom would be better off missplaced!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 1:00pm

I have to get off of the internet soon!! I have to go pick up my Skids, and I won't be able to get back on all weekend, but this place I will visit as often as I can, I am soo glad that I am not alone with my feelings!!! thanks Everybody for Venting with mee!!