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unhappy_step's picture

Submitted by unhappy_step on Thu, 05/21/2020 - 11:10pm

i realize the older that his daughter gets, the more annoying they are as a pair. i feel like he'd be happier without me around as long as his baby is there to fill all of his emotional holes. YUCK. she just came to our bedroom door and asked to come in and he JUMPED and said YEA!!! so quickly and loudly. as though he was excited that she was at the door acknowledging his existence by speaking to him. ha ha ha! when the other kids in the house come to the door and ask to come in, he doesn't even respond. his constant desire to feel needed and wanted and loved by this disloyal, unattached, personality disordered child makes me sick to my stomach.

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thinkthrice's picture

Submitted by thinkthrice on Fri, 05/22/2020 - 2:02am

that is all.   

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Submitted by DPW on Fri, 05/22/2020 - 7:11am

I'd have a hard time with this as well. I don't think I could respect or be turned on by a groveling partner who chases after his child.

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Submitted by unhappy_step on Fri, 05/22/2020 - 11:59am

that's exactly what he does. she's been really bad and getting into trouble a lot lately. he disciplines and punishes only to feel guilty and act pathetic with her the next day. it's so pathetic. SO PATHETIC. i can't take it much longer.

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Submitted by unhappy_step on Fri, 05/22/2020 - 12:01pm

i think you may be right. the older she gets, the more aggravating she is. if it's not her irritating me, it's her father treating her a certain way that irritates me. i don't want her in my house.

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Fri, 05/22/2020 - 12:19pm

I dont get this at all. I have 3 boys, so same opposite sex dynamic, and I just find the way some dads on here act (including my DH) so freaking weird. I mean, I love ODS9, but honestly hanging out with kids is not the same as an adult, in no way could he replace an adult partner. I also dont feel deeply offended by him being mad at me. I dont like it either, but it's part of being a parent and we all get over it.

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Submitted by Steptococci on Tue, 06/23/2020 - 10:41pm

And familiar. I think this happens more to daddy/daughters than mom/sons because women tend to connect with friends on a deeper level and get our emotional needs met outside a marriage more easily whereas men have fewer close emotional friendships and tend to rely on their wives for this. So when the marriage fails, the next closest emotional replacement is their daughter. And they don't even see how it throws the new wife of girlfriend off kilter or what a turnoff that behavior is.