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SS (5) had another violent freak out yesterday and almost caused a car accident.
So yesterday was pretty interesting. After the last freak out at school when the BM had to call the cops on her own son because she couldn't get him to go to school it was decided that she would not be dropping him off anymore. She was supposed to have somebody else take him to daycare, she can't even manage to make him go there either, and have daycare drop him off at school. She managed to do this on Thrusday and Friday of last week but decided that on Monday of this week, which just happens to be the beginning of DH's week, that she's going to drop him off.
Big Bad Unhappy
So DH and I are fighting due to SS(5)'s horrible behavior. Apparently DH seems to think that we don't deal with him being out of control in our home. I call BS.
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And this is why SS thinks he can do whatever he wants.
If any of you havn't read my previous blog I would recomend it before responding to this one.
DH and I have been texting back and forth all day today. I have been ripping him a new one because I am sick of him freaking ignoring what say about his kids, not doing anything about bad behavior (at least with SS), and freaking out and accussing me of "having it out for his kids." For two years now I have been telling him that his son is out of control, but nobody listens to Unhappy.
SS's punishments are as follows:
BM called the police on her 5 year old son yesterday.
So I get a text from DH yesterday saying call me while I was at work so I did. Apparently SS(5) had decided yet again that he didn't want to go to school so what does BM do? She calls the cops on her 5 year old while they were at the school.
A little back ground is neccessary here.
They are not missing out on anything!!! They are spoiled!!! Quit feeling sorry for them!!!
I bought the kids one of those chocolate Christmas count down calendars so that we could make the days leading to Christmas fun. We have SS(5) and SD(7) every other week and last week was our week with them. DH of course decides how the order will go, SS, SD, and then my BD 8. I put my foot down on that one because I don't think it's fair just because his kids are only with us every other week that they always get to go first and my BD always has to go last because I have her 100% of the time. So I told him to be fair that we will draw names to see who goes first.
How do you stop this behavior?
So SS almost 6 has been having issues lately with having huge melt downs (temper tantrums) when being dropped off at school or picked up. It always happens on BM's week or the start of DH's week when BM drops him and SD off at school. He had a freak out the third week of school where he decided that he didn't want to go and wanted to go with BM to work instead. After she was able to get him into the classroom he lost it attacked the door. Kicked and hit the door and finally make it out into the hallway where he chased BM down. BM ended up taking him to work that day.
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I got a job offer where I could be making six figures a year. Should I take it or leave it?
I work for a very large corporation in a right to work state, which means I get paid crap for the work that I do. At the moment they are in the process of phasing our my department. I have been offered another job for this company in another state basically doing what I do know but I'll have the earning potential of making six figures a year as oppossed to the crap wage I make at the moment. I will never get this type of opportunity again. I have not completed my college education yet and with half a bachelors degree in biology, it's not really going to get me very far anyways.
No worries. I won't stress you out anymore.
DH and I have been fighting a lot lately. The day after I went to the ER he decided he wanted to talk about a previous fight where I said some things that I probably shouldn't have said out of anger.
DH listed all of the stuff that has been stressing him out.
1.) He feels like he's walking on egg shells around me.
2.) He never lets SS sit in his lap anymore for fear that it will upset me.
3.) He doesn't feel like he spends quality time with his kids because it will upset me.
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Does this seem strange to anyone? It's been on my mind recently.
1.) It's BM's year to have the kids on Christmas this year. It falls on DH's week. She of course wants them Christmas Eve night so she can have them Christmas morning. DH hasn't had a Christmas morning with the kids in three years because it's alwasy falling on BM's week. DH says no. BM gets p!ssed so she said she is going to use her vacation time, which takes priority over DH's time on even years. DH states he is going to use his two weeks on her two weeks proior to Christmas which means she won't get to see her kids for a month. She freaks out and DH gets Christmas morning back.
Health Issues and Depression
The day before yesterday I ended up in the ER. My heart started racing in the morning when I went to take a shower and I ended up on the floor because I almost fainted. I've had heart issues for quite some time now. It's just recently gotten worse. I get shooting pains in the left side of my chest, my heart skips a beat sometimes, starts to race at others, and sometimes it feels like someone is crushing it and it's strugling to beat.
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