Does this seem strange to anyone? It's been on my mind recently.
1.) It's BM's year to have the kids on Christmas this year. It falls on DH's week. She of course wants them Christmas Eve night so she can have them Christmas morning. DH hasn't had a Christmas morning with the kids in three years because it's alwasy falling on BM's week. DH says no. BM gets p!ssed so she said she is going to use her vacation time, which takes priority over DH's time on even years. DH states he is going to use his two weeks on her two weeks proior to Christmas which means she won't get to see her kids for a month. She freaks out and DH gets Christmas morning back.
A couple of days later.
2.) It't Thanksgiving, DH has already picked the kids up for dinner and then has to turn around and drop them off at their uncles house where BM's family is. When DH gets the kids into the front door BM tries to invite him inside to say hi to all of her family.
A day later.
3.) BM takes non professional pictures of the kids and then proceeds to email them to DH.
I just don't get this lady. One minute she's trying to eff DH over and the next it's, "here are some pics of the kids, and come inside and say hi to all of my family that you once knew." I've also noticed an increase in her need to contact DH again.
She had also been trying recently to get me to go out with her for drinks and was trying to convince me that she has seen questionable behavior with DH towards their kids when they were together, which I find funny because she stalked DH for the first year of our relationship and was always trying to break us up. I finally just told her to quit contacting me.
All of this behavior has started since she announced that she was getting a divorce from her DH. It was bad before she met he soon to be ex. She wouldn't stop stalking DH until she met this guy. They've only been married for just over a year and she met this guy just a couple of months after SD told BM that DH and I were getting married. She moved him in the month he got out of prision and married him four months later.
Can anybody tell me WTH is going on because if she starts her sh!t again, I swear I'm gonna lose it this time if DH doesn't keep this b!tch at bay? Plus with all of my heart crap going on recently, I don't think I can handle much more stress.
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I'm not sure how your DH's CO
I'm not sure how your DH's CO was written, but usually the holiday schedule includes Christmas eve and the other parent gets them back on the 26th - even/odd years. That would make more sense so each parent can see them wake up in the morning to their presents and spend the whole holiday together.
!My dhs co states even odd
!My dhs co states even odd years for xmass however on dhs years it states that dh gets them for both xmas eve and xmas day. But they on their own came up with that they get kids the night before xmas eve and they can do their xmas on the eve every other year. That way both get them either xmas eve or xmas.day. no.switchimg on xmas day ever. So kuch easier. No split days.
Dh had the upper hand herr though as it states that bm dont get them xmas eve or xmas day on his years so if bm refused to let him have them on the eve even though it states he is to have them on the eve on her years dh just has to say that he will go by the co the following year. Bm backed down every time.
However one thing dh and i agre on is that bm should be able to see the kids on his years for xmas not fair to keep them away from one parent or the other on this holiday.
My bm used to be sickening
My bm used to be sickening sweet one minute and raving, crazy bitch the next. I too wondered if she had bipolar. Then I found out she was just on meth.