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BM Trying to Sabotage SD's Counseling

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Submitted by TryingSoHard on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 9:48am

SD's behavior and attitude has improved since we've begun taking her to talk therapy. She and her dad went together the first session, and SD and counselor invited me to come the second time. I had an engagement I couldn't get out of, so I told her I would be sure and make it the next time. SD lives with us.

I feel like he chooses SD's immediate wants over my well being every time

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Submitted by TryingSoHard on Wed, 09/28/2011 - 12:07am

SD's behavior has gotten so bad we have to lie to her about when we're going to be home so she doesn't bring her drug abusing friends in the house. We have added locks to nearly every door in the house to prevent her and them from stealing. SO snapped at me this afternoon as we were leaving because I said, "SD doesn't know where we are half the time anyway. Might as well not give her extra information." Why give her another opportunity to use my house as a place to get high and have sex with ELP (entitled little prick)? SO said my comment was rude. Well, it's true.

SD Threw a tantrum

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Submitted by TryingSoHard on Thu, 09/22/2011 - 9:04am

...because we won't do her laundry.

She put her dirty clothes in the hamper by the washing machine and assumed they were just going to "wash themselves" like they did at her BM's house. We moved the clothes back to her room, because it's not our job to do her laundry and pick it up off of her floor after she's discarded it.

When she first moved here, she ran out of clean clothes after a month. She was too lazy and entitled to wash so she begun taking my clothes out of my closet when I was not home.

She's seventeen. Old enough to do laundry, right?

BM said to BF, "If you make SD move back in with me, that will be the end of your relationship with SS, me, and SD."

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Submitted by TryingSoHard on Tue, 09/20/2011 - 2:08pm

SDs behavior has gotten so bad (stealing, sneaking out, inviting people over when we're not home, coming home drunk and stoned, breaking into the house when she's supposed to be staying with BM, screaming obscenities in the yard at midnight, etc.) that we've been seriously considering making her move back in with her mom. We don't want to do this but we're at our wits end. Our relationship is in jeopardy and my serenity is totally destroyed.

I feel the need to start documenting these events.

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Submitted by TryingSoHard on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 1:15am

My boyfriend's daughter came home (she lives with us) after two days with her mom. She's lived here for about six months and has become an absolute terror. Everything that comes out of her mouth is a lie. She's currently in trouble because she's been breaking into our room and stealing whatever she wants; makeup, clothes, and more recently money. We busted her red handed stealing petty cash and she denied it even when shown proof.

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