I have been reading people's posts here, and i see lots of 'hate', 'can't stand', 'tolerate', etc feelings toward the step kids. Now, i am aware that people come here to share their frustrations, so we get to read their thoughts when they are at their wit's end, and on their good days they are probably having fun living life, rather than blogging here. I get that. But, still, i want to ask a question: do any of you LOVE your stepchildren? May be those that do can share with me how long it took them to love them, or how that process evolved.
thank you!