I'm a 51 year old widowed man of 7 years and my fiance is a 51 year old divorced for 6 years. We've been together for four years and living together for almost 2 1/2 years. I have two daughters 17 and 13. She has two daughters 13 and 10. I have mine full time and hers go back and forth. I bought a new home for all of us so there wouldn't be a yours or mine but an ours. They all have their own rooms at both houses.

We've postponed our wedding twice because of two ongoing issues and are now talking of separating or at least living in separate homes.