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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Sun, 06/30/2024 - 9:04am

As you can tell from my previous blogs... BM is very absent, history of drug abuse/neglect etc... Shes got outstanding warrants over 10k in arrears.... She has not seen the kids physically in over 6 months and now she is suddenly wanting to call every 2 and 3 weeks at a time... 

State of Kentucky here... Lawyer said around december if shes still not seen them that we can go for Terminating parental rights... 

I am a motherless child... mothering motherless children..

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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Wed, 04/03/2024 - 10:35am

venting.. My mother is very much alive...but very absent in my life, my brother that is still living and all our children's. She only shows face when she wants a special "kodak" moment to show all her friends on social media world.  But lately its been very painful... i've completely cut ties to her as she has me.

You longtime members here with me know my situation... I had one child naturally.. adopted a sd and am raising 2 more sd's. 

I just don't get it..

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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Tue, 03/19/2024 - 6:23am

BM is now hiding/evading law over her active warrants one of my SD's had an emergency last week and is still having a hard time as soon as I found out what was going on with her the BM is the first person I had to fight to get ahold of and out of kindness/concern let them know what was going on with their child. Husband told her until she got the warrants taken care of he was not sending the kids, he spoke with attorney who consulted the judge in the case they encouraged DH to bring it back to court for sole custody.

Active Warrants, Bratty SD, Crappy Husband... I am over it!

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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Sun, 03/03/2024 - 12:13pm

So the BM got a bench warrant last thursday, she already had a contempt of court charge for being 3k behind in CS... she now has a FTA and Non Support charge out against her, 3 in total... She never showed up and messaged me Friday asking if she was getting the kids like she had no idea (which she does) she never messages to check on anything unless she needs or wants something... 

Ambivalence....

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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Sat, 01/06/2024 - 11:21am

That is really only way to describe this mix of emotions... Quick background reminder... DH has Primary Residential, Kids live here full time go to school in our district and its been that way since back in 2019. Kids are now 12 and 10. BM gets kids EOWE and is over 3k behind in arrears. 

Lengthy.. but I hope someone take the time to respond here.

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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Fri, 11/17/2023 - 9:09am

SD's are 11 and 9 now, its been a while since I've blogged. 
Husband is Primary Residential, girls attend here in the school district. 
BM is very high conflict, lost her custody due to drugs and neglect. 
BM does not work, does not pay her court ordered child support and has now been summoned by the court. 
I as SM have not communicated with BM in over a year, it was taking a tole on my mental health and every other week 
I was getting a message or phone call for something I had said, something I had did while girls was in my care. 

Overwhelmed, Lost, UNDERSTATEMENT!

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Submitted by Tigerlily7 on Sun, 08/06/2023 - 12:37am

It has been a while, I have been raising babies and picking up 2 BM's slack. 

I am raising 4 children in total. 2 are my SD's 11 and 9. DH has full primary custody of. BM does not exercise what time she gets with them, does not pay CS, and does not communicate with Dad on behalf of the kids, let alone pick up a phone just to say hey or check on her children. 

My Adopted SD is now 7, and my only Natural child just turned 4.... anywho.

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