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Rant about spoiled and lazy “SS”

Sunshine1992's picture

Ok so I can admit I am becoming a bit obsessed but I can't take it anymore. I'm leaving this place next Saturday and plan on ending the relationship but it seems like the universe is really testing my patience and remaining time with this kid. I'll need to rely on you wonderful people to get through the next 6 days!

things that irritated me about half-wit and his genius father today:

we went to the grocery store and spent a good amount. We generally just pay one person each time we go but we spent quite a bit more than usual today. Mind you we've always split expenses in half even though his son obviously eats our food. It didn't really bother me until I have realized that my kindness was completely unappreciated. We get in the car ("SS" isn't with us of course) and I said "you're going to have to give me a little more than half cause you know your son isn't my responsibility financially." SO flips out and says I'm ungrateful and cheap because he hasn't charged me rent the few months I've been staying here (his decision, not mine, I've offered and asked him if he was sure he didn't want to charge me rent". 
 

so naturally argument ensues, I'm at the end of my rope and I take a walk to cool off. I come back to the house as I have nowhere to go and everything's fine and he apologizes and understands my point. Fine 

 

fast forward to hours later because genius SS has us waiting extra time on dinner (even though he had already eaten with friends when he got home! Lol!) and SO cooked shrimp. He gives HALF of ALL of the shrimps to the kid, which I don't really care in itself because if I'm hungry I'll just eat something else, but it just completely proved my point about the supermarket bill. 
 

another thing that has my gears really grinding. SS failed the equivalent of 8th grade (we don't live in America or the UK) and of course SO bent over backwards to get him into a basic trade  program so he wouldn't have to repeat 2nd of junior high (basically 8th-9th grade). He just chose a random program (mechanic) without really even looking into it or seeing if it's something he's generally interested in, he just thinks it's going to be easier than 9th grade LMAO. At the end, there were no more spots in mechanic so he signed up for a basic (less than an associates) in ELECTRICITY. He still thinks this is easier than 9th grade btw 

 

I overhear SO talking to his sister saying "oh yeah once he does some apprenticeship hours if a company likes him they'll hire him. And there's good money in that field" And I'm rolling my eyes back into my head like mmm aggressively. Because FIRST OF ALL he has to pass. He couldn't pass basic science and math and he's going to have a breeze of a time passing other more advanced courses. Like ok. SECOND it appears SO and SS are so entitled and and ignorant that they don't even realize what program this dunce is doing, it's a basic program which is all fine and good but all you can do with that is be an assistant. It's like they're just looking at it as an easy way out to 9th grade which makes me sick because there are lots of kids who would actually deserve to be in that program and working hard and this kid is just like "hahaha I'm so smart my dad got me out of 9th grade for something easier and I'll make money cause that's how life works !!!"

 

sorry for the long rant. Just disgusted and need to vent here or else I'm going to say it to SO and make my remaining 6 days conflictive. 

 

 

 

Comments

tog redux's picture

Just keep repeating to yourself, "6 more days. 6 more days."  No point in arguing over anything anymore.

Does your SO know you are leaving next Saturday?

Sunshine1992's picture

Thanks, yeah you're right, no point in stressing myself out over SS or anything else really. Yep, he knows I'm moving out and he knows I'm pretty done with this pathetic relationship anyway. 

Rags's picture

ROFL

While those in the skilled trades can make a good living the trades  aren't for lazy morons by any measure.  The maths for electrician training is no cake walk.  Not only will this kid have classroom responsibilities, as an entry level helper/apprentice the journeymen will run his lazy ass into the ground and into tearful meltdowns.

I am happy to hear your exit is scheduled for only 5 more days.

Good luck and enjoy your new life adventure with that shallow and polluted gene pool fading rapidly into your past.

Sunshine1992's picture

Exaaaactly. I hate when people think trades are an easy alternative to passing high school cause they're not. It's just more specialized than university and tends to be more fast paced and intensive. 
 

I am already anticipating complaints and whining from "SS" about course load. This will be a long drama for sure, glad I'll be out of it!

 

thanks for the support!!  

Aniki-Moderator's picture

If you're stuck there for the next 6 days, do your best to Gray Rock both SS and your stbx SO. You're almost at the end of it!

Sunshine1992's picture

Yeah I'm gonna try. Staying with a friend tonight and SS is finally back in school so when I'm there I won't see him until night time, and stbx working morning so there will be little contact. 

Sunshine1992's picture

Yeah def. it make me feel a bit guilty because at once I cared for the man but this is infuriating . The shit storm to come does make me chuckle.