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Talking with the MIL

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So I can't stand my MIL. A couple weeks ago I had a long talk with DH about the way she treats me and told him I'm done with it. He preceded to flip out on her. MIL and myself really haven't talked much since. Its been nice. However, last night she asked to talk about everything. She preceded to tell me that she had begun to resent me basically because DH told her that if he had to choose he would choose me over her. That he refused to loose me over her overprotective and controlling ass. That if it came to it he would cut her out.

Yes, I know I am being a complete ass.

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As per my blog earlier... and mine and SD8 arguments DH told her last night that she was grounded and that she can provide for herself (according to her "SM does nothing for me and doesn't buy me stuff" comment). I know SD8, and I know this effects her not at all to have to make her own sandwich so I told her that she could pay for her stuff as well, otherwise she is only using my stuff therefore that is still me doing for her.

Funny Pregnancy letter

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Dear Judgey McKnows-It-All,

Right now, your due date is approaching, and you’re hyper focusing on a lot of insignificant stuff. I wish you knew that none of what you are worrying about matters. What you need to do is go to bed now and sleep until the baby comes. It could be your last chance to sleep for a few uninterrupted hours for the rest of your life.

I finally SNAPPED

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UPDATE from: http://www.steptalk.org/node/135524

It happened. After being holed up in my room majority of the day Saturday hiding from nosy, bratty SD8. I snapped. It was bad. And what pushed me over the edge?... threading a damn needle to sew a hole in DH's work pants. Yup. I think I was just so damn pissed over every thing SD8 has put me through the last couple weeks and the fact that all I wanted was a nice quiet weekend to spend with my DH because we haven't had anytime alone in forever.. that I just snapped.

I am pretty sure this kid gets kicks out of driving me absolutely insane.

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As soon as I arrived home from work SD8 is up my ass. Something I am quite used to because she does it everyday. She insists on being the nosiest person I have ever met. 5 o'clock starts with me in the kitchen cooking dinner and SD8 sitting in the dining room coloring or something. As I am cooking she begins to talk, SD8 is the loudest person I have ever met except in instances where she just wants to piss me off then she insists on mumbling and talking in that stupid baby talk like a 2 year old. Anyways, she says something while I am cooking.

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