SS19 asked us if he and his gf can move in b/c she is preggers. Neither have work, we already have 3 teen boys we're struggling to feed, we"re buying a house and moving in Dec. This is the kid who lived with us for a year and would binge and hide food and denied losing ALL my dishes, stole from us all the time, always had friends over while we wer gone and parties. I could go on and on but you can get the picture. Anyhow, he claims he's grown up and now a man (and dad _OMFG were you a fool and forgot to cover your tool then?)

I have told DH "NO". Dh is having health issues, we're both having high blood pressure and full time jobs, I have two jobs, and to top it off where they hell would they stay? Non of the boys we have are going to give up their room for them and so they;d stay on the couch?? I will lose all privacy, have to share a kitchen with a pregnant grumpy bitch, and our bills will go way up from showers and laundry.

Anyhow, I said all that to just explain and maybe defend my decision, but my answer is still going to be a resounding NO. They're in a house right now but apparently the lease doesn't allow a third person due to septic issues. UHHHM our lease doesn't allow two more people due to sanity issues.

I think if I get manipulated into saying yes, I will move out. Period. Hold me to that people.