I met my husband about 6 years ago, in fact our anniversary is this Halloween 5 years. He had a son from another girl, they were never married. My husband was a pretty messed up guy when we met, in an out of jail and not responsible at all. He was pretty much in jail the first 2 years of his son's life. His girlfriend wasn't anything to write home about either. That is when we met, he moved in as a roomate. I needed help with bills. A month or two later we got together.