}:) In may late 2o's I had finally given up finding a man and was resigned to being alone but happy. Within weeks of me telling God that if alone is the way I was going to be then so be it I met my husband. To sum it up in one phrase hell froze over and became the second Antarctica. He came with a total of three kids and a wife which he told me he was legally separated from. I found out after I had given him my heart and the key to my apartment that they were still married but living separate lives.