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SD thinks she will still have visitation as an adult

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Submitted by stepmomof1biomomof1 on Mon, 06/04/2018 - 9:46am

SD is 14 right now. In less that 3 1/2 years she will be an adult (18). This weekend she mentioned that she will still be coming EOW when she is an adult. I told her that it doesn't work that way. Once she graduates she will be expected to have a job and have her own life. I told her that she would be welcome to come over for lunch lol. But for real...what happens when step kids are adults? When does visitation end? 

Summer of H*ll

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Submitted by stepmomof1biomomof1 on Sun, 05/27/2018 - 9:22am

Summer hasn't even started yet and I am dreading it. There is not a clear order in the custody agreement about summer. Just says we are supposed to have her 40%. She takes gymnastics lessons at her mom's about a hour away from us. DH doesn't want to get her during the week and have to take her to her lessons 4 days a week. 

"I hope the baby dies"

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Submitted by stepmomof1biomomof1 on Mon, 05/14/2018 - 8:43am

Walking in a store with DH, DS13 and SD14 this weekend. SD is complaining that BM is pregnant. She has a 6 year old half brother that lives with her already. She says "I hope the baby dies" we all look at her in shock. She 100%meant it and would not change her mind when DH was fussing at her. 

Later in the day DH asked me if I thought it was crazy that she said that with no emotion at all. I said it was completely  Cuckoo for cocoa puffs crazy pants crazy. He wasn't happy with that answer. 

DH and BM both agree she needs therapy. So far neither has done anything about it. 

SD 13 the liar

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Submitted by stepmomof1biomomof1 on Sun, 04/29/2018 - 4:47pm

If you remember from my previous post SD refused to admit that she started her period even though her mom had found evidence multiple times that she was stuffing her underwear with toilet paper. Just flat out lied about it and said it was 2 different friends that had been over. This past week I found bloody underwear hidden in her drawer. She couldn't lie and say it was a friend at our house. 

SD the liar

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Submitted by stepmomof1biomomof1 on Thu, 04/12/2018 - 6:20pm

sd lies about every little thing. She still won't admit to starting her period even though her mom and aunt found "evidence" that she was stuffing her underwear and then throwing it away.

She lies about her grades even though we can look at them online. 

She lied in snapchat about having a twin brother, a barrel racing horse and a goft cart. None  is true.

Found out that sons dad blocked me

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Submitted by stepmomof1biomomof1 on Wed, 02/14/2018 - 6:02pm

My sons dad has not seen him in over 4 years. He has joint custody and pays court ordered child support. My son has had retainers for over a year trying to prevent braces. I text my ex in November and said the orthodontist didn’t think the retainers were doing the job and he would probably need braces. I would contact him when I knew for sure. He has a iPhone and the message was marked delivered. No answer but that’s normal.