So all morning yesterday BM was texting DH out of control, like 10 texts about how she thinks he is such an asshole and that he needs to stop telling her what to do and that now we can't have our one weekend a month that was recently agreed upon. She was harassing him but he didn't respond to a single text! So proud of him! However, this brings up a new problem, we have him all week every week and if she says we can't have our one weekend a month, what's to stop us from just keeping him that weekend?!?! There is no CO or CS and we just kind of work things out as we go. We don't have money for legal representation but we desperately need to get something filed! We completed a "parental agreement" that we want to file, basically keeping things as they are but I fear that if we file it without her, she'll fly off the handle when paperwork gets served. We have filled one out with her before but it never got filed.

She's threatened us over the years about finances and our time with SS but when her scheduled time is up, he's always brought back to us or MIL. She filed for state aid and in the process filed some kind of CS case. We had to go in (I was terrified) and speak to the CS office, they laughed at the fact that the was trying to get CS from us when it turns out she would have to pay us if we filed a case against her. (Obviously that got dropped by BM! God forbid she financially support her child!) She's called CPS on us for no reason and even THAT VERY DAY still brought him to my in-laws! She is unpredictable and a complete liar and I'm so afraid that if she feels threatened she'll try to find some crazy cutthroat lawyer and make this even more of a living hell than it is already.