I am now a mom of 4, 2 of my own and 2 step children. The oldest, which is 11, has many many issues.  Psychological, and psychical.  ADHD, depression, anxiety, undiagnosed histrionic personality disorder (it’s the only thing that makes sense relating to all the things she does regularly after hours and hours of research), she still goes to the bathroom on herself regularly. One of my biggest issues is her lying and manipulation.  She constantly is going home and telling her mom lies, constantly lying to me and my husbands face.