Ok so my ss15 lives in another state and I have been with his dad 4 yrs. I have 4 bios 22,20,14,11. And my oldest is married and I have a wonderful DIL. DH has two, mySD 21 and Ss 20 by first marriage, and my Ss 14(will be 15 next week) by second ex. First ex I have never spoken to. Mutual choice since they had a horrible marriage and divorce and are not on great terms even today. I get along great with those skids. The other Ss is more like only child since he is only child of bm.